So i recently found out that i have a dead beat BM. Apparently, my MOH had asked all the girls for $ towards my shower, shower gift, and bachelorette. Well this particular bridesmaid (she lives in california) was coming out one weekend and told my MOH she'd give it to her then. Well on sunday of that weekend, she sent an email to my MOH saying she wasn't going to be able to contribute anything.
Now let me just say that when my BM was out, we all went out to dinner and she had no problem spending $80 on dinner and then went out drinking later. So needless to say, i believe that's a load of cr*p!
Then my MOH put together a scrap book for me to give to me at my shower. Well she did 75% of the book and asked all of my BM's to do one or two pages. My MOH mailed all the girls their pages and this same BM never mailed it back. My MOH just got an email from her on saturday saying that she just got the page (my MOH sent it out a month ago) and she didn't think she could get it to her by my shower (which was THAT saturday).
I guess i can understand the $ issue (although for her it's all b.s.), but the scrap book??? That doesn't take any money and i'm so disappointed in her. Do i say anything? And then there's the BM gifts... do i give her the same as everyone else???
cammolax23
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Re: what would you do? BM bullsh*t
Posted by mycrayon1
OMG I am so sorry you have to go through this! I would say if you still want her in your party then maybe you need to have a talk with her I know shes in California but maybe a long chat might make a difference. After that she's either going to drop out or change. I hope everything works out!
I agree too, You need to sit down with her and have a serious serious talk. the last thing that you want to deal with the few days before yoiur wedding is some dumb box giving you a hard time about being their for you when you need her the most good luck
