what would you do with 3 and a half weeks to go

Original post by CaseyVM214

Aug 08, 2006 02:57 PM

So my FI cousin RSVPd to the wedding weeks (well over 6) ago...her, her husband and 4 children and an unfant are coming...fine..that is 6 seats. So 2 weeks, my FI and I heard through the grape vine (i.e. his mother) that she heard from her sister, who heard from her brother (the cousins father) that they are no longer coming to the wedding (reason unimportant)...so we waited no phone call, no email...then the dealine passed last week for the hotel...no reservation (they are from TX and have no family in NY). still no call. What would you do..her little family is going to cost me over 500 dollars.

oh and my FMIL refuses to get involved so that is not an option..would you

1. Call the cousin and be upfront and ask her what is going on

2. Just assume she is not coming and have no place for her at the wedding

3. if she never call assume she is coming and risk lossing the $500 when she doesnt show up.

thanks in advance!!!

ewickens Posted: Aug 09, 2006 08:12 AM

Re: what would you do with 3 and a half weeks to go

ANY UPDATE????????

CaseyVM214 Posted: Aug 09, 2006 09:58 AM

Re: what would you do with 3 and a half weeks to go

Posted by ewickens

ANY UPDATE????????

Well, my FI didnt want me to call her...so he emailed her father (his uncle) just inquiring about her...so he must have put the pressure in his daughter because she called me this morning to tell me that they wouldnt be coming..so all is well. I wonder though how long it would have taken her. thanks ladies for your support!!!!