Whats the rudest comment /question you've gotten since becoming engaged?

Original post by cateydee

Feb 03, 2009 11:54 AM

Mine continues to be 'are you pregnant'? um duh, if i was pregnant, would i be getting married in the summer of 2010?

also completely random people that ive never hung out with say 'you'd better invite me!'

asg450 Posted: Mar 25, 2009 09:38 PM

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Posted by JenBill61210

maybe why so far away...

and also family members telling me who i should have in my bridal party.

Yes, I've heard about my aunt telling my other aunt that her daughters should be in my bridal party.

I've also heard, what's the parking situation in the area; we are in Brooklyn so parking can be a problem at times. But really, if you want to come to the ceremony then just take the time to find a spot or just show up to the reception.

OY Posted: Mar 25, 2009 09:57 PM

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1. shouldn't you be on a diet?
2. where is my invitation? ok, i'm bringing a guest.
3. how much are you paying pp at your rh?
4. how much was your ring?
5. what quality is your ring?
6. what took you so long to get engaged?
7. you've been planning this wedding forever
8. why arent you getting this.. why arent you getting that..
9. why arent you inviting such and such

UGH!

CloudNine Posted: Mar 25, 2009 10:07 PM

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why are you waiting so long?

'i just dont get why people want to spend so much money on a big wedding. what a waste'

lissylissa Posted: Mar 25, 2009 10:08 PM

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my step mother insisting i have my step brother in the wedding, ppl saying i better be invited, ppl telling me what i should and should not do for the wedding, and also o u guys sure u wanna get married u have only been together for a year and a half! ugh some ppl just piss me off! everyone has something to say once u mention wedding!!!!

MissCanon Posted: Mar 25, 2009 11:36 PM

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i have a few.... my moms friend told me i was too fat and that i should lose weight for the wedding....and my MOH decided to tell everyone shes engaged as soon as she found out I was and when they ask her where is her engagement ring she doesnt want one b/c muslim people dont believe in engagement rings because it means the marriage will fail

tammi2308 Posted: Mar 26, 2009 06:33 AM

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people that say 'that's a long enagement', since when is 1yr and 5mth a long engagement . The RUDEST has to be 'I always tell people not to do it, not to get married'. Someone at work said this to me! unbelievable.

MrsInglima Posted: Mar 26, 2009 06:43 AM

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DH's father told us we should push the wedding of six months because he felt it was too soon for us to be getting married.

Of course we didn't, and then he didn't even bother to show up. F- him!

Scarpak Posted: Mar 26, 2009 12:13 PM

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oooi forgot one more. my FMIL and her darling darling daughters my FSILs who said well you better have the wedding in suffolk because if it is in nassau or queens we arent coming. Oh well i guess thats like 12 people off my guest list cuz im having it at chateau briand

italgal Posted: Mar 26, 2009 01:13 PM

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One of the things that makes FH & I so compatable is that neither one of us wants kids. Everyone knows this about us. It's wonderful for most people & we wish them well & we even babysit now and than. Just don't ask me ' SO WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO HAVE KIDS?'