Where did FH go or will FH go........
for his bachelor party? How did you feel about it?
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Out bowling because we have a teenager in then bridal party, but the stip club hopping. LOL.
I am okay with it, no biggie.
I am okay with it, no biggie.
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he went to vegas and i was fine with it. Actually since Vegas is his favorite place i would've felt bad if he didn't go. I probably thought about it more than when he was actually there. I was surprised how i was calm and didnt think about it much while he was gone. But i also know how my DH is, he says what he did and sometimes his friends think he is crazy for being so open with me and saying certain things. I know some others who lie and wont even say if they went to a strip club and pretend they went elsewhere. Dh hates this and doesnt understand it. He says if he had to lie about things such as that or about where hes going then he wouldnt want to be with the person.
Sometimes i even think what goes through his mind, he sometimes forgets im not JUST a friend and talks to me like he would to one of the guys.
Sometimes i even think what goes through his mind, he sometimes forgets im not JUST a friend and talks to me like he would to one of the guys.
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Beach during the day and Yankee game at night. He loved every minute. He's not into bars/clubs/strippers so this was perfect (he chose what he wanted to do)
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he went to vegas and i was fine with it. Actually since Vegas is his favorite place i would've felt bad if he didn't go. I probably thought about it more than when he was actually there. I was surprised how i was calm and didnt think about it much while he was gone. But i also know how my DH is, he says what he did and sometimes his friends think he is crazy for being so open with me and saying certain things. I know some others who lie and wont even say if they went to a strip club and pretend they went elsewhere. Dh hates this and doesnt understand it. He says if he had to lie about things such as that or about where hes going then he wouldnt want to be with the person.
Sometimes i even think what goes through his mind, he sometimes forgets im not JUST a friend and talks to me like he would to one of the guys.
My FH doesnt have anything booked yet but I know there has been some talk about Vegas and I dont know how I feel about this. I trust him 100% and know he will just be going to have a good time with the guys but then I let my imagination run wild too![]()
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dont worry, he will act the same he would anywhere else. Not like if he went to a strip club in NYC or lets say AC he would act different than one in vegas. I went to vegas for mine and saw bachelor parties, and spoke to some of them, a good guy will act good no matter what and a pig will act the same no matter where he is.
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FH is going to Vegas.... I am actually really happy for him b/c he has never been there b/4 and I know he is going to have a great time
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He is going to the Borgata, the same night I am going for mine so hopefully I won't be thinking about what is going on there!
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He is going to the Borgata, the same night I am going for mine so hopefully I won't be thinking about what is going on there!
I wish we were going the same weekend but his friends want to plan it for 2 weeks before mine. I guess I will have to plan a weekend out with the girls lolol
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It's not booked yet, but they will most likely go to Vegas or AC for a weekend.
I'm 100% fine with it... I want him to have the time of his life with his boys. I actually even requested that they get him strippers!![]()
I think that's all part of a bachelor party and I know it is all in good fun!
I'm 100% fine with it... I want him to have the time of his life with his boys. I actually even requested that they get him strippers!
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No idea...he wants to go to Vegas but I don't think they planned anything as of yet.
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FH is going to AC, I'm okay with it. I want him to go have a good time. . . My only rule (beyond the obvious) was that I'd prefer him go to the strippers in a club . . .instead of them coming to him in like a hotel room or something! He was fine with that and I trust him. . .
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dont worry, he will act the same he would anywhere else. Not like if he went to a strip club in NYC or lets say AC he would act different than one in vegas. I went to vegas for mine and saw bachelor parties, and spoke to some of them, a good guy will act good no matter what and a pig will act the same no matter where he is.
Yea you are 100% right, its wierd because if it was somewhere local I dont think I would even be bothered about it but just the fact that it is Vegas bothers me. Plus the fact that we are going to Vegas the last 4 days of our honeymoon and I thought it would be the first time for both of us.![]()
yeah i mean listen a strip club is a strip club no matter where you go. I think the difference is if its local they are coming home that night so thats what makes you feel better. Going away for days and being far away is what makes it harder. But a guy who plans to be bad at his bachelor party will be bad whether its local or in another state. Let me say this, the WORST story ive EVER heard about any bachelor party and ive heard alot of them, was a local one. I was friends with ppl who went and they told me what went on and i was SHOCKED, but this groom and the other guys would've done the same thing no matter where it was, they went in it with bad intentions ya know. He went home the same night and wasnt that far, and let me tell you it was real bad.
Personally, and its weird but i didnt want DH to go out locally, i know its stupid and others would think its stupid for me to prefer him to go away but LOCALLY NOOOO i was against that. The reason why is bc my DH was a huge part of the club scene before we were together, and him going to clubs in NYC meant him bumping into his past and it would've been very likely if they went to big clubs in the city. I just didnt want him to see people from his past and go up to him to talk to him and be there at his bp, not about trust just didnt want any of them to be any part of it.
dont worry, he will act the same he would anywhere else. Not like if he went to a strip club in NYC or lets say AC he would act different than one in vegas. I went to vegas for mine and saw bachelor parties, and spoke to some of them, a good guy will act good no matter what and a pig will act the same no matter where he is.
Yea you are 100% right, its wierd because if it was somewhere local I dont think I would even be bothered about it but just the fact that it is Vegas bothers me. Plus the fact that we are going to Vegas the last 4 days of our honeymoon and I thought it would be the first time for both of us.
yeah i mean listen a strip club is a strip club no matter where you go. I think the difference is if its local they are coming home that night so thats what makes you feel better. Going away for days and being far away is what makes it harder. But a guy who plans to be bad at his bachelor party will be bad whether its local or in another state. Let me say this, the WORST story ive EVER heard about any bachelor party and ive heard alot of them, was a local one. I was friends with ppl who went and they told me what went on and i was SHOCKED, but this groom and the other guys would've done the same thing no matter where it was, they went in it with bad intentions ya know. He went home the same night and wasnt that far, and let me tell you it was real bad.
Personally, and its weird but i didnt want DH to go out locally, i know its stupid and others would think its stupid for me to prefer him to go away but LOCALLY NOOOO i was against that. The reason why is bc my DH was a huge part of the club scene before we were together, and him going to clubs in NYC meant him bumping into his past and it would've been very likely if they went to big clubs in the city. I just didnt want him to see people from his past and go up to him to talk to him and be there at his bp, not about trust just didnt want any of them to be any part of it.
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vegas. I had no issues with it; his friends starting planning it pretty much after we'd been dating a month because for him that was a long-term relationship. ![]()
i love vegas but i didnt' want to go since he was going and i went for my friends a few years ago.
i love vegas but i didnt' want to go since he was going and i went for my friends a few years ago.
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golfing out east during the day and then to foxwoods....i didnt mind at all...whatever went on there...i trust him completely
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my FH is going to Saratoga he's leaving friday and coming back sunday! at first it bothered me but i'm over it. i'm going to ac the same weekend so thats better for me!
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They went to Shea then to a bar.
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Plus the fact that we are going to Vegas the last 4 days of our honeymoon and I thought it would be the first time for both of us.![]()
That would kind of upset me too. I wouldn't care about strip clubs or anything...
