Where do people

find the nerve to invite themselves to someone's wedding???? I mean seriously! Thank God my room cant hold more than 80 people (comfortably)! We only want people that are close to us or mean a lot to us at our wedding! Jeesh I mean there must be a reason if you werent invited right????

Just venting....thanks!

Some people

for Sylvia!

vent away its what we are all here for

I know exactly what you mean.

I know exactly what you mean! There is this guy who keeps talking about making sure the DJ plays a particular song for us to dance to.

people do it all the time....dont let it get to you.

feel better...

I know how you feel and I am sorry that people are doing that to you!

I had 3 people at work say to me, 'I can't wait for you wedding, it is going to be so much fun'. I was not sure if I was going to invite the people from work because if I invite one, I have to invite everyone (17 people, and each with a guest - so that would be 34 extra people) because we are all just as close. That would be an extra $4,500 just to have the 34 people there . I thought that I would be able to cut somewhere, but I guess not. And to top it off, when I first got engaged, my friend said that she is so excited to be in my bridal party because she has never been in one before. The problem with that was that I had no intentions on asking her to be in our BP. So I had to tell her that we decided on only having family in our BP because FH has too many best friends that he can't pick only a couple of them (thank goodness that was the truth or I would have been in a very bad position). How do you just assume your in my BP .

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

find the nerve to invite themselves to someone's wedding???? I mean seriously! Thank God my room cant hold more than 80 people (comfortably)! We only want people that are close to us or mean a lot to us at our wedding! Jeesh I mean there must be a reason if you werent invited right????

Just venting....thanks!

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You could have just told me.... You didn't have to post about it...geez....



Seriously though...people need to get over themselves. I only had one girl do this and well....she didn't get an invite!

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

I don't know...but I feel ya...and honestly, I don't know how to tell my friend from Hong Kong 'um, you weren't invited' - especially since he's already booked the flight!

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OUCH!!! Good luck with that one Chris.

A girl I know keeps saying to me 'I got my dress for your wedding'

Hmmmm..... I wanna say sorry you are not invited.