Where is everyone?!?!

leesah85 Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:09 PM

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im here!!!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:10 PM

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V, i'm sorry to hear about that... I sometimes go through periods where I don't talk to my MoH or my BM (my sister)... it happens, people get busy...

I feel like they trust I have EVERYTHING under control right now... They both live in California so I haven't even been able to discuss BM stuff with them (that's why I'm on here a lot)....

Don't worry... ask them to have a girls night with you, see if they will step up to the plate.. Ask them to stand by you and assist with the process if that's what you want....

I HTH

VCanizalez Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:12 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

V, i'm sorry to hear about that... I sometimes go through periods where I don't talk to my MoH or my BM (my sister)... it happens, people get busy...

I feel like they trust I have EVERYTHING under control right now... They both live in California so I haven't even been able to discuss BM stuff with them (that's why I'm on here a lot)....

Don't worry... ask them to have a girls night with you, see if they will step up to the plate.. Ask them to stand by you and assist with the process if that's what you want....

I HTH

No =-( It is not like da,... We had a big Fight....

So its not that we are busy...
We work RIGHT NEXT TO EACH OTHER... and dont speak... had a BIG argument...

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:16 PM

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Posted by VCanizalez

Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

V, i'm sorry to hear about that... I sometimes go through periods where I don't talk to my MoH or my BM (my sister)... it happens, people get busy...

I feel like they trust I have EVERYTHING under control right now... They both live in California so I haven't even been able to discuss BM stuff with them (that's why I'm on here a lot)....

Don't worry... ask them to have a girls night with you, see if they will step up to the plate.. Ask them to stand by you and assist with the process if that's what you want....

I HTH

ahhh man.. :( have you tried to talk with her? send her a note or write her a card..something nice and explain that this situation hurts you and you want the chance to talk about it

No =-( It is not like da,... We had a big Fight....

So its not that we are busy...
We work RIGHT NEXT TO EACH OTHER... and dont speak... had a BIG argument...

chreesta Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:18 PM

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I'm here, but knitting in between!

I wish I still had a job to hate! Looking for a job s*cks. I have a phone interview tomorrow though, so let's hope that works out!

Cheer up V! We looovvveeeerrrr yoouuuuu. I hope you BM comes around

VCanizalez Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:21 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

Posted by VCanizalez

Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

V, i'm sorry to hear about that... I sometimes go through periods where I don't talk to my MoH or my BM (my sister)... it happens, people get busy...

I feel like they trust I have EVERYTHING under control right now... They both live in California so I haven't even been able to discuss BM stuff with them (that's why I'm on here a lot)....

Don't worry... ask them to have a girls night with you, see if they will step up to the plate.. Ask them to stand by you and assist with the process if that's what you want....

I HTH

ahhh man.. :( have you tried to talk with her? send her a note or write her a card..something nice and explain that this situation hurts you and you want the chance to talk about it

No =-( It is not like da,... We had a big Fight....

So its not that we are busy...
We work RIGHT NEXT TO EACH OTHER... and dont speak... had a BIG argument...

No... I will nto send a card.... i was HURT too with what she said to me...
Up to this point, I am not 100% sure if I want things to work out...
If this weeks passes by and Nothing happens, then I will just tell her 'Hey X... Thank u so much but this will Not work out...'

It just hurts bc it seems as if I dont have real friends...
I dont think if u have follow my story but I lost two of my XBFF aftwer I got engaged since they were my MOH and after they said YES and were happy, they treated me like sht and said 'CANT DO IT ANYMORE AND CANT TALK TO U ANYMORE' and we dont talk now...
and now THIS?!!!!!!!!!

allornil Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:26 PM

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aww V, this is what I do. I have 1 BFF. I have other people that say they're my bestest friend and yet forget my bday and if i text dont respond unless it suits them.

I realize, it's just not worth it in the end. In the end, I have to be my own best friend. ok that sounds weird but I mean, I have to be ok w my life ya know?

dont stress the BP or anything. enjoy being w FH and going out and stuff. screw that girl. not all relationships are meant to last ya know. some friendships end and although it's sad, just know, they just run their course and you learn from it and move on.

HUGS!

VCanizalez Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:30 PM

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Posted by allornil

aww V, this is what I do. I have 1 BFF. I have other people that say they're my bestest friend and yet forget my bday and if i text dont respond unless it suits them.

I realize, it's just not worth it in the end. In the end, I have to be my own best friend. ok that sounds weird but I mean, I have to be ok w my life ya know?

dont stress the BP or anything. enjoy being w FH and going out and stuff. screw that girl. not all relationships are meant to last ya know. some friendships end and although it's sad, just know, they just run their course and you learn from it and move on.

HUGS!

Thanks Amy...

I just got teary eyes... (is that the name of the expression?!! lol)....
Just sucksks u know.....
Suckss when U think u have a BF and then ***** happns,....
FH keeps telling me JUST TAKE HER OUT OF THE WEDDING ONCE IN FOR ALL so u dont ahve to STRESS out bc i am really stress for that...

I just need to talk i guess....

While I was in teh Shower yesterday I was so happy.. while i was in NV i was happy... while with FH im happy... its here at work i get sad and depress and stress....

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Nov 15, 2010 04:32 PM

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Posted by allornil

aww V, this is what I do. I have 1 BFF. I have other people that say they're my bestest friend and yet forget my bday and if i text dont respond unless it suits them.

I realize, it's just not worth it in the end. In the end, I have to be my own best friend. ok that sounds weird but I mean, I have to be ok w my life ya know?

dont stress the BP or anything. enjoy being w FH and going out and stuff. screw that girl. not all relationships are meant to last ya know. some friendships end and although it's sad, just know, they just run their course and you learn from it and move on.

HUGS!

ITA Amy... well said

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Nov 15, 2010 05:03 PM

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Aww Veronica I'm so sorry to hear that. I feel like my friends have distanced themselves a lot since I got engaged too, we're just at different points in our lives. But, any true friends should stick by your side no matter what and if they don't then forget them!! You're a sweet and beautiful girl and you should be smiling ear to ear everyday!!!! I hope everything works out

smilesjc81 Posted: Nov 15, 2010 05:05 PM

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i'm here...just mondays suck and Im trying to be productive with my work load ( and failing)

VCanizalez Posted: Nov 15, 2010 05:07 PM

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Posted by MrsTarricone2B

Aww Veronica I'm so sorry to hear that. I feel like my friends have distanced themselves a lot since I got engaged too, we're just at different points in our lives. But, any true friends should stick by your side no matter what and if they don't then forget them!! You're a sweet and beautiful girl and you should be smiling ear to ear everyday!!!! I hope everything works out

Thanks chica... I will try =-)