Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

I am not afraid of these 2 ruining my wedding, BUT, I am soooo afraid of having my mother and stepmother in the same room for fear that my Mother may say something out of line.

My Mother still refers to my Stepmother as 'the homewrecker' even thought its been 12 years since they have been divorced.

My Stepmother and I get along very well and she treats FH and I like her children and I am very grateful to have her in my life...And of course I love my Mother and stand by her, but I just don't want any drama that day...

Hopefully God will be watching over and everything will be ok....

I almost forgot to mention my FMIL. She is sweet, she is, but she is also bipolar and a manic depressive in the worst way. She called FH once and complained how he hasn't spoken to her (he was playing phone tag with her) and how if this is how it’s going to be then she is not going to come to the wedding! (Yes in those exact words)

Then FMIL wrote a post on MY mother’s MySpace page on how her son (FH) hasn’t spoken to her and doesn’t care for her. Then sends my FH two messages one on how she is sorry for the way she is and she is lonely because she misses her husband who is at work the second message was on how much she loves her new husband and how he is so good to her…. Yeah we are a little worried about her.

Great thread! I have a cousin who demands a LOT of attention...and has no tact, decorum or any common sense. For example, she wore a BLAZING white slinky dress to our cousins wedding. She dominates every conversation and pretty much ruins every family function!

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Posted by sweetdreamz1181

i have a friend and everytime we go out to bars and stuff she ends up spilling a drink on me or causing me to have some type of clothing problem lol.... i told everyone to keep her away from my on my wedding day while she has a drink in hand

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tell her she can only have clear beverages!!!!

OMG it seems like alcohol is the big reason we are dreading invivting some of these guests!! i have to say, it's the same for me..

one is my sister, who is 22 and quite the drinker. i am worried she will end up making out with her date (that she has never met!) in some corner... the other is a friend of ours (that, of course, my sister used to date) who also loves to get sh*t-faced and cause a scene... he does it at FH's bar all the time, why should our wedding be any different?

i like him, but i almost hope he says no...

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Posted by futuremrsfab

08 crashing! great topic & for me it will be my uncle's wife- she is a misery! on easter she came to our house & i was like hello aunt jill happy easter and she answered back- 'my cat is dead'

the cat had died over 2 weeks before and she has 18 others- its not the cat- she just has to always have everything be about her--- i dont know how she'll get through my wedding since its not about her at all.

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I have people like this too. Stay away from them on your wedding day. They will have nothing nice to say, so don't bother.

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Posted by SylvieB

The other is a friend of FH's family who happens to be the town whore!! We weren't going to invite her then she called his sister all crying and upset that she didn't get a STD.

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Did you mean sexually transmitted disease or save the date hmm, I have 2. My aunt/Godmother who is a RX junkie & just broke her neck from falling down the stairs. No one talks to her anymore. And the other is FFIL (step) kids...should be interesting!

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Posted by twinkle164

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Posted by futuremrsfab

08 crashing! great topic & for me it will be my uncle's wife- she is a misery! on easter she came to our house & i was like hello aunt jill happy easter and she answered back- 'my cat is dead'

the cat had died over 2 weeks before and she has 18 others- its not the cat- she just has to always have everything be about her--- i dont know how she'll get through my wedding since its not about her at all.

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I have people like this too. Stay away from them on your wedding day. They will have nothing nice to say, so don't bother.

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Yup I am going to make it a point to avoid or just not tolerate those kind of people. I know I am going to get complaints but FH and I both agreed we will not tolerate it.

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Posted by heatherandrichie

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Posted by SylvieB

The other is a friend of FH's family who happens to be the town whore!! We weren't going to invite her then she called his sister all crying and upset that she didn't get a STD.

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Did you mean sexually transmitted disease or save the date hmm, I have 2. My aunt/Godmother who is a RX junkie & just broke her neck from falling down the stairs. No one talks to her anymore. And the other is FFIL (step) kids...should be interesting!

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No, I meant Save the Date- but I'm SURE she's had some of the other kind!!!!!

My FMIL, she is also an alchoholic, FH whole family is dreading her actions at the wedding, they even told me it would be smart to have FH and his mom dance in the beg of the night right after being introduced, b/c the last wedding they were at she only made it an hour before she was o trashged she was giving lap dances.

I am going to have a taxi waiting outside to driver her a@@ home. ha ha

I have two- both my mom's siblings. Her sister (My Aunt) b/c every other wedding we have been to she insists on bringing way more people than are on her invite. She brings all her kids (teenagers) and her kids boyfriends/girlfriends! I am contemplating having a bouncer just to keep her wedding crashers away.

The other is my mom's brother (My Uncle) just b/c he is a drunk and the first and only time FH met him he was drunk and basically insulted FH by telling him the company he worked for s u c k e d and that he was a cradle robber b/c FH is 5 years older than me (which was laughable b/c at the time his son just got married and he was 5 years older than his bride!)

I have too many.

wow - there are so many of us...

mine are my aunt and uncle - all of a sudden they're running around with Hell's Angels and spewing white supremacist garbage. My aunt berated - no that's too nice - she SCREAMED at a hispanic waiter at her 'best friend's' wedding this past November. And she throws herself at men until my uncle loses his temper and wants to fight everyone. I dread their presence.

edited for spelling

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Posted by MJDoc12

for me it was the Whore (aka my brother's now ex-GF)

she is a disgusting piece of ghetto trash--and there are not enough words for me to explain how much i have despised her from the moment i met her. it was their daughter that was the FG--so i was worried about them not bringing her in time for the ceremony. (they made it with 5 min. to spare!) and i was worried about what she would wear

she didn't disappoint--she had a dress that was of course too short and 2 sizes too small (that's her M.O.) she didn't keep her legs closed all nite and i had MANY MANY wedding guests come up to me and say 'wow, we got to see your brother's GF's crotch and p*ssy all nite!' to my horror, she caught the bo-k and once again, her legs were WIDE OPEN for the garter being put on her.


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did i mention she got shiiiitfaced drunk ? yeah she rocked.


ETA: I forgot to mention my FFIL and his crackhead GF (no joke--she really is a crackhead)--thank GOD they opted not to come.

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OMG!!!