Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

Original post by lilangel

Jun 20, 2007 01:05 PM

Ok I know we all have that one family member that we have to invite because they are family but you are so afraid of how they will act at the wedding. I am just interested on who it is for everyone.

For me its my grandmother reason being is that she is a diabetic and at my cousins first birthday party she truly pulled out her kit and injected her insulin right there at the table where everyone was sitting. Need I say more?

Who is it for you and why?

Mdolph6 Posted: Jun 20, 2007 08:07 PM

Re: Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

My SIL....I knew that she would do something to ruin things or put the spot light on her and sure enough SHE DID!!
I havent spoken to her since the wedding except when DH and I comfronted her about her actions!!

lilangel Posted: Jun 21, 2007 02:43 PM

Re: Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

Posted by MissMaster13

Pretty much everyone from my father's side. They are soooo ghetto and they are mostly from outta state so they have no idea of how to dress, act and what to give as a gift at a LI Wedding...awesome

My grandmother is on my father's side so I understand

mycrayon1 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 02:50 PM

Re: Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

We only had one and they weren't invited to begin with.
I got a little uncomfortable with not inviting them because the husbands brothers and wives were. But it wasn't my choice and I couldn't convince DH and IL's otherwise.
It was 2 cousins. They can't anywhere without their kids (loving nicknamed the hit squad) and then mking idiots of themselves for drinking too much.
Even if we had invited them and made it an adult only reception they would have brought the kids.

thelastresort Posted: Jun 21, 2007 02:57 PM

Re: Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

Posted by LB and DC

OMG it seems like alcohol is the big reason we are dreading invivting some of these guests!! i have to say, it's the same for me..

one is my sister, who is 22 and quite the drinker. i am worried she will end up making out with her date (that she has never met!) in some corner... the other is a friend of ours (that, of course, my sister used to date) who also loves to get sh*t-faced and cause a scene... he does it at FH's bar all the time, why should our wedding be any different?

i like him, but i almost hope he says no...

My brother, whom I love dearly, did that exact same thing at a wedding. He was a GM in a family friend's wedding and he was fully MAKING OUT with the the bride's sister, the MOH (whom he never met before the wedding) on the dance floor in front of my parents and her parents.

How embarassing! I thought my mother was going to die! THEN, to make it worse, at the day after brunch, the bride's parents announced they were up all night listening to their daughter and my brother because they shared a wall at the hotel. How disgusting! To this day, my brother thinks its hilarious. Pig.

lilangel Posted: Jun 21, 2007 03:11 PM

Re: Which invite are you afraid will ruin your wedding?

Posted by thelastresort

Posted by LB and DC

OMG it seems like alcohol is the big reason we are dreading invivting some of these guests!! i have to say, it's the same for me..

one is my sister, who is 22 and quite the drinker. i am worried she will end up making out with her date (that she has never met!) in some corner... the other is a friend of ours (that, of course, my sister used to date) who also loves to get sh*t-faced and cause a scene... he does it at FH's bar all the time, why should our wedding be any different?

i like him, but i almost hope he says no...

My brother, whom I love dearly, did that exact same thing at a wedding. He was a GM in a family friend's wedding and he was fully MAKING OUT with the the bride's sister, the MOH (whom he never met before the wedding) on the dance floor in front of my parents and her parents.

How embarassing! I thought my mother was going to die! THEN, to make it worse, at the day after brunch, the bride's parents announced they were up all night listening to their daughter and my brother because they shared a wall at the hotel. How disgusting! To this day, my brother thinks its hilarious. Pig.