I was just looking through pictures on Facebook of a high school friend that got married and noticed that another girl we went to high school went.....and she was wearing a white dress!! How ballsy is that??? I would NEVER.
Brings me to my question: Would you be upset if someone came to your wedding wearing white???
I just feel like its not the right thing to do....its the brides day and she wears white(or some shade of it hahaha) and thats it!!!
evita2781
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i would say now it wouldn't bother me but i could totally feel different the day of. All I know is that I wouldn't wear white or some shade of it at another person's wedding
Chelechel1
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Nah wouldn't bother me. Everyone knows who the bride is.
angelscri
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I think it depends on who it is. One of my cousins wives would purposefully wear white simply to p iss me off.
leesah85
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i think it really depends on the situation. if it is a white gown, then i'd have a problem with it. but just a dress? ehh people are just dumb lol
AugustBridein09
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09er crashing
DH's cousin's wife wore a mostly all white with a little bit of black design to my wedding (her wedding was in 08')
I honestly didn't notice it day of....until we looked at pics and DH said 'Is that a white dress at a wedding?'
She looked like the idiot not me. LOL
angelatp
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nah not at all. Wouldn't bother me in the least bit. I certainly be thinking what the h elll is she thinking though!
MrsTarricone2B
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I don't think it would bother me. Everyone will know who the bride is
xoabxo
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Posted by angelatp
nah not at all. Wouldn't bother me in the least bit. I certainly be thinking what the h elll is she thinking though!
lol me too.... but i did pick out white bm dresses with like a black sash/belt and my mom and FH were like your going to let them wear white!!!! i still haven't decided yet i think it would be different how many weddings have you gone to and there have been white BM dresses ???
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I have seen people do it, but I would NEVER! I honestly, try now to wear any white in my dress when i go to a wedding lol
I dont think id be upset, I would just say to myself, she looks ridiculous wearing white to someone else's wedding. and honestly, I would hope that everyone on my guestlist knows the proper etiquette... if they dont - oh well. I am determined to have fun that day and not worry about anything or let anythign get to me! its supposed to be the best day of my life!
Burhart1111
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I agree with most of you....While I would NEVER do it myself....in the end, the other person at your wedding wearing white is the one who looks like an idiot!
kedra5
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Yeah I dont see myself getting upset about it, its definitely not the right thing to do but at the end of the day, its your day to enjoy with DH and thats all that matters
allornil
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id prob just shake my head and think..TACKY! no way will she be hotter than me! :)
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Posted by AugustBridein09
She looked like the idiot not me. LOL
that's exactly what i was thinking- i wouldn't be mad because it's obvious who the bride is...but i'm sure ppl would be like 'nice dress, ya jerk!'
mybabylovesmoi
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I would think that it's pretty tasteless but what can you do at that point I would just ask the server to only give her colored drinks
TheFutureMrs2011
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YES!!! I think its so tacky.. White is reserved for the bride on her special day.. Even if the bride isn't wearing white, no one else should. I feel very stronly about this lol
MissingLI
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Eh, it really wouldn't bother me. As long as she didn't throw on a veil and walk up the aisle, there are worse things I would worry about.
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i wouldn't be upset about it. it would annoy me though, but at the end of the day, no one is going to be paying attention to her anyway. however, i do think that women who do wear white to another woman's wedding do it in poor taste. it is someone else's day, i'm sure you have more than one dress in your closet. wear a different color.
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If it is a gown I WILL BE SO PISSED AND I WILL PROB TELL HER TO GO HOME N GET DRESS THE RIGHT WAY... If it is a little dress, then its ok...
kedra5
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Posted by mybabylovesmoi
I would think that it's pretty tasteless but what can you do at that point I would just ask the server to only give her colored drinks
