Who are we?

I am going to get flamed here but I dont care. Thats why I changed my screen name for now. I dont want to deal with the drama. I totally understand where you are all coming from, its wrong to accept to go to someone's wedding and not show up. But havent we all had those at our weddings (for those of you who are married). We dont post away about it for 980 posts on 50 pages.

Yes I know allure doesnt show up for get togethers and I know she seems to have problems. And I know a lot of you have stood by her for her problems and are fed up but why keep dragging it out? OK maybe she is a man, maybe she isnt getting married, maybe she is a kid, but besides hurting this one bride (who I agree, it is wrong to have done) has she ever HURT any of you? She seems nice to all most of the time and if she hasnt been, everyone has their issues right.

I just think its ridiculous this has gone on for so many pages. And then you ask why she hasnt defended herself, a lot of people have said very nasty things about her. I dont know, I just think that all these posts have gona a little too far. With all the hurt in the world, allure not going to a get together or someones wedding (which as I said is definately wrong but not life threatening) is bothering people so much?

You tell her to leave but in essence, she or he can do whatever they want. We do not own the boards, some of us need to get off of our high horses. Allure, come out and defend yourself whoever you may be. It isnt right what you have done but I think this has gone a tad too far!