Who are we?

Original post by ythedrama?

Jul 06, 2003 03:45 PM

I am going to get flamed here but I dont care. Thats why I changed my screen name for now. I dont want to deal with the drama. I totally understand where you are all coming from, its wrong to accept to go to someone's wedding and not show up. But havent we all had those at our weddings (for those of you who are married). We dont post away about it for 980 posts on 50 pages.

Yes I know allure doesnt show up for get togethers and I know she seems to have problems. And I know a lot of you have stood by her for her problems and are fed up but why keep dragging it out? OK maybe she is a man, maybe she isnt getting married, maybe she is a kid, but besides hurting this one bride (who I agree, it is wrong to have done) has she ever HURT any of you? She seems nice to all most of the time and if she hasnt been, everyone has their issues right.

I just think its ridiculous this has gone on for so many pages. And then you ask why she hasnt defended herself, a lot of people have said very nasty things about her. I dont know, I just think that all these posts have gona a little too far. With all the hurt in the world, allure not going to a get together or someones wedding (which as I said is definately wrong but not life threatening) is bothering people so much?

You tell her to leave but in essence, she or he can do whatever they want. We do not own the boards, some of us need to get off of our high horses. Allure, come out and defend yourself whoever you may be. It isnt right what you have done but I think this has gone a tad too far!

jennbaby Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:23 PM

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are you???

allure Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:26 PM

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What the heck are you all doing to me
Heather you never did this to me until you started to hang with you know who

jennbaby Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:27 PM

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Heather LOL!!!!!!!!!!

who do you mean Allure????

jennbaby Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:27 PM

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allure what did you do to karen???????????????????????????

swags1016 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:27 PM

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Who do you mean??

JuneBabyBride Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:27 PM

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Jenn you bad bad influence!!

HeatherandNick Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:29 PM

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who? you can FM me.

I try to be nice to all - but I do think you crossed the line - don't you see that?

jennbaby Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:29 PM

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ME??!!??! lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:33 PM

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Allure you have been nothing but nice to me. You are always the first to respond on my threads and seem very sweet, but at the moment I have to agree with the girls. I was very eager to finally meet you at the gtg in June and was quite dissappointed you were not there.

Now someone's wedding you didnt go to. I understand you have problems as well we all do, but all we ask is just tell us what is going on. I could understand maybe you dont want to reveal your personal life to us, but to just stand someone up on their wedding day is not nice

I am sorry, but all we ask is just a little explanation.

HeatherandNick Posted: Jul 06, 2003 11:40 PM

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very well said Chippa

corinne7477 Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:00 AM

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i went to karens wedding on friday and didnt find it wierd to go i took it as brides helping brides and that is what we are doing here. i had fun and was happy to share in on her day. it was wierd that there was a person missing at the table who said they were coming. if it were my wedding and i got a yes and the spot was empty i would be mad because other brides would have liked to of gone. not only did the seat get unused but another bride could have gone and enjoyed themselves if your not going to cover your plate an apology would be nice for the bride no one likes to thow money away expecially for someone that isnt worth it.

swags1016 Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:08 AM

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Well said Corinne!

prncssrachel Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:11 AM

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Hi Corinne!

corinne7477 Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:11 AM

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no problem lets just forget this chic or guy if heshe responds lets ignore. simple as that the more we respond the more attention this person gets. she/he screwed up and has to live with it not us let her feel guilty i think we all did a good job expressing how we all feel about the situation and for the lamo who wouldnt post her/his name thats just plain stupid and i hope that if she is short at her wedding that the same thing happens to her or that no one wants to fill the seats. i dont know what type of friends they keep but i wouldnt want to be one or waste anymore time or breath on this lame as*es.

corinne7477 Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:12 AM

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hi rachel not on im what happened

allure Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:12 AM

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How nice is that

corinne7477 Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:13 AM

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very nice thats for showing some emotions

prncssrachel Posted: Jul 07, 2003 12:14 AM

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Well, let me start by saying, I can't wait for December when I am not living with my parents anymore. My father is so neurotic about having aol on his computer. He's CONVINCED people are putting stuff on his computer through it! And I thought he was a rational man! Did you guys have a good time last night?