already asked their bridal party? Did you ask the same time as FH asked his guys?
I'm DEF asking 2 of them asap, the rest i wasn't planning on it but i'm antsy. lol. I also know A LOT of people said wait since my wedding is a year and a half away cuz u never know what can happen b/t people. The 2 i'm asking now i've known since 2nd gr and kindergarden so even if they wanted to they aren't going anywhere lol.
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deanna225
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as soon as we got enagaged we asked which was a big mistake. we want to make so many changes.
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i already asked the girls but fh hasn't yet...
Same here, I know a lot of people said to wait but I couldn't take it any longer I was excited to do something special and make it official.
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i asked already... and i wish i didnt.
if people havent yet... PLEASE take the time to ask them!!! i rushed into my decisions, and kinda wish i could do it differently
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Hmmmm . . . marrymybestfriend - can you elaborate at all??
FH and I have not asked yet. . . I JUST asked my sister to be MOH. I would have 6 gals and he 5 guys, but he is on the fence about asking another person to even it out (which I don't care about at all). And, of course, we have toyed with idea of just having immediate family, brothers and sisters, which would be two on each side.
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just to add - my only recommendation if you are not sure about people...you DONT NEED to ask everyone at the same time. there was 1 girl i was considering and 2 guys FH was considering. but we are just taking our time. most of my BP arent friends with eachother (just through me, ya know). so its not like they know when i asked who..
so if you are on the fence with people...you can still ask those you know you want...and just wait for the rest (unless they all gossip w eachother...then thats harder)
I asked my girls and the guys (cause they are my/friends brother) FH asked his sister and bro-in law (best man)
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I asked 6 of 7 already and one on one. I have a diff relationship with all of them. I am asking my cousin tonight to be #7. It is very exciting.
Nrauch8191
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I haven't asked but they know who they are....
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I haven't asked anyone yet bc I don't know who I'm asking or if I'm defentially having a bridal party besides a MH. I def know who I'm asking for my MH. We've been friends since we were in kindergarten. I have another lifelong friend I'm on the fench about asking. for the bridal party. I'm gonna ask my MH prob this weekend or next and the rest of the party I'm waiting until the end of the summer or beginning of the fall which will still be 8-9 months away and more then enough time.
Trose
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I already asked the girls. I did it about 2 months after getting engaged (12/07). FH has yet to ask the guys.
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i aksed them and totally regreting one of them
Mrsluv2be
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We asked everyone already, however I suggest u guys think it through completely. We have changed our mines about the number of people we want in the wedding party and its hard to tell someone they're cut.
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I asked pretty much right away. My MOH new she was going to be my MOH before I even got engaged. She was the second person I told that I was engaged and I asked her right then. I asked my other two BM's a few days later. I waited a month to ask my JR BM's and flower girl.
I'm pretty sure my FH has asked all the guys already too.
Future Mrs H
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Since we are only having MOH and BM. We asked them both right away. My RB had no clue what I was talking about. As far as he understood he was going to carry HIS pillow down the aisle.
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I asked all the girls and most of the guys already have been asked. We still need to ask 1 or 2 more.
SummerBride10
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I asked almost everyone...except for one of my BMs who I decided later on I wanted to ask, I just havent seen her recently. FH also asked his GMs..we did it right after we got engaged.
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We all ready asked ours and I had issues with my MOH but that is a long story (all ready posted). I would say if you know for sure who you want go ahead!!!!! If you've been friends with them for ever then they will most likely still be your friends at the wedding!!! No matter what, I feel some sort of drama will arise.
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I think I was very drunk and slurred their roles. However, my bestest friend knew before the ring was on my finger that she would be in the bridal party.
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I asked almost everyone...except for one of my BMs who I decided later on I wanted to ask, I just havent seen her recently. FH also asked his GMs..we did it right after we got engaged.
I know...you're so excited over it all...doesn't even matter if a date wasn't set, right??? FH was told by his mother that although his brother 'knew' he would be BM, that he needed to ask. For some reason FH was so nervous about it, that he waited ummm like 2 months to ask.
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Posted by Kristan35
I asked pretty much right away. My MOH new she was going to be my MOH before I even got engaged. She was the second person I told that I was engaged and I asked her right then. I asked my other two BM's a few days later. I waited a month to ask my JR BM's and flower girl.
I'm pretty sure my FH has asked all the guys already too.
OMG totally unrelated but.......is that going to be your cake???????
