Who is going to wait and who is NOT going to wait

Original post by VS11

Jun 17, 2005 02:47 PM

to have a baby after you are married??

FH and I cant wait to be parents so we are ging to shoot for a HM baby!!

MrsMichel07 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 07:20 PM

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Posted by leighdvm

I'm going off Depo after the HM and leaving it in God's hands.......

I'm 34 so I ain't gonna wait TOO long.....

We would love to have a child now but we are going to wait until after the wedding.

After the HM I will stop taking my BC pills and we will probably start right after that.

WE soooooo can't wait!!!

gNi1125 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 07:28 PM

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We plan to wait 2 years.

sarahbelle Posted: Jun 17, 2005 08:35 PM

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I would like to start trying a few months after the wedding.

BethGail Posted: Jun 17, 2005 08:47 PM

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we are waiting, w were both 25 when we got married and want to get PG when we are like 29. i am WAY to selfish right now for a baby!

BethGail Posted: Jun 17, 2005 08:47 PM

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BUT we do have names picked out...

Deedlebug126 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 09:20 PM

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Posted by fabsfiance

We're going to wait 3 or 4 years. Take the time to travel ans spend time alone before we bring kids into the picture.

Same for us... We have many places to see first!

Goldi1021 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 09:26 PM

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Ill be 35 and a half by the time I get married and we won't be waiting too long after we get married to start trying. I wouldnt start now or I'd be 8 months pregnant at my wedding - no thanks - not my style. FH and I talked about it and even though we are older he would rather have a few months alone before we start. I'd never trick him. Good lord, the man knows my cycle better than I do and he looks at my pill packs.

blueyes678 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 09:44 PM

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We LOVE children and can't wait to be parents but I think we're going to wait a year. Although everytime we talk about it we get more and more excited to parents!!

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Jun 17, 2005 09:46 PM

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Posted by rosaria

to have a baby after you are married??

FH and I cant wait to be parents so we are ging to shoot for a HM baby!!

I would LOVE for that to happen. FH wants to wait though.

meredith24 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 10:12 PM

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we already have a 4 year old....but i want another one soon. Our daughter is starting kindergarten and i dont want to do it all over agian when she is 10, so i keep telling him he better get ready or else im not doing it agian.
I also would like to own something first...

LovelyChas Posted: Jun 17, 2005 10:28 PM

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We want to try to have a baby as soon as we get married, we already live together, own our home and traveled enough to say we want to travel with our family

Steph62406 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 10:29 PM

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Posted by icequeen4700

we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter, and plan on trying right away for another one (or two!)

Same here, We have a 3 year old daughter! !

troutster Posted: Jun 17, 2005 11:35 PM

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We bought our house(small but it is ours ) so we want to wait about 3 yrs. Before we are 30, so about 27 we will have kids. We want some time to spend together first ( we have lived in different states for 5 yrs now) so we need some time for ourselves first, and a bigger place

aidamarie Posted: Jun 18, 2005 02:06 AM

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Posted by rosaria

to have a baby after you are married??

FH and I cant wait to be parents so we are ging to shoot for a HM baby!!

Us too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DebsNY Posted: Jun 18, 2005 02:17 AM

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We're going to wait 4-5 years. We're still young (we're getting married a month before he turns 24, and a month before i'm 23).

Plus, he's still got a year of school and an internship... I would love to only wait 2 years, but financially we won't be secure at all.

jimmysgrl Posted: Jun 18, 2005 12:26 PM

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We're going to wait at least 6 months. We've lived together for a little over 2 years, are thinking of moving (again and finally, this time) sometime in March so probably once we're settled there we'll start trying (woohoo!)

Rina Posted: Jun 18, 2005 04:19 PM

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I think were probably going to wait 1 1/2 to 2 years before we have kids. I just wanna enjoy being married for a little while and do a lot of traveling. Lord know's once the babies comes- goodbye. We would definitely be more restricted. We have our parents to watch our kids if we'd want to go out. But, me personally I'd want to enjoy being w/ each another first.

lishbone Posted: Jun 18, 2005 07:40 PM

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Posted by adioguardi

That's great! I know you'll be wonderful parents. I have two children already from my first marriage, so FH and I are not planning on having anymore (hopefully God's plans are the same as ours).

Good luck on that HM baby!

awwwwwwwww you are too cute!!

Mrs.Z Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:23 PM

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We are going to wait, we are both 30 I have a by 35 rule, no kids by 35 no kids at all. I would love to now but financialy its not happening. Either way I have a neice and nephew I spoil rotten so im happy if we have no kids.