Who is going to wait and who is NOT going to wait

Original post by VS11

Jun 17, 2005 02:47 PM

to have a baby after you are married??

FH and I cant wait to be parents so we are ging to shoot for a HM baby!!

Kim51103 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:09 PM

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Gonna wait prolly 2 years....wanna get our Masters over with...and have good jobs....

TEDNJENN Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:10 PM

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We figured if it happens it happens we are not gonna 'TRY' just yet....

cjik Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:10 PM

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We probably would wait, but we're not that young anymore. So we'll start trying shortly after the wedding also. FH wanted to start trying this month, but I told him no way do I want to have morning sickness or a weird complexion on my wedding!

Also, no way am I giving up coffee right now! No alcohol doesn't bother me, but the coffee will be rough.

MsKitty1274 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:10 PM

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This topic has come up often of late. First we were going to have a honeymoon baby, then we decided to wait, now who knows!! I think it will depend on our living situation. We've been talking about moving to FL (possibly BEFORE the wedding! ), so that will play a big role in that decision. But we're not going to wait long, FH is SO ready for kids (as am I).

melissaandsean Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:12 PM

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catch me in about 5 years

I'm selfish and don't want our life to change. We love kids and want them. BUT we want to be a married couple first and enjoy all marriage without kids, has to offer!!!

xjulietx Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:12 PM

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We are approaching our one year anniversary on Monday (6/20) and I think we will wait another 6 months to a year before I come off the pill and we give it a try.

DH is in grad school now, so we want to wait a bit.

TimDogsGal Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:12 PM

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going to wait.......

i have a neice...and that is good enough right now..lol

mcaula Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:15 PM

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We wanted to do the same thing Rosaria but plans have to be postponed at least a year due to me being out of a job a couple of months after we get married(Job relocating). So we decided to wait until I find another job and get settled in it for a year or so.

103005FallBride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:17 PM

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We're going to wait a while... Even though we're not getting any younger...we're not getting any richer either!
We both would really like to have a house before we decide to have children.

Suzannebride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:20 PM

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A girl in my office got married in mid March, brought in her wedding video to show us on Tuesday, and then on Wednesday the news broke that she is expecting a baby mid December! I was like yikes...that is too quick for me! I want to wait for FH to be done with school and settled into a job and I want a house before we have a child!

PUPADOLCE Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:28 PM

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We are going to wait at least two years.
I need to enjoy being married before we devot our lives to a child. I want to make sure my child has my full attention.

akajt98 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:32 PM

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We are going to wait a while. We def need to be a little bit more financially stable.. plus we don't think we can fit a baby in our STUDIO APT, heck we can barely fit!

That said, we are not getting younger either (both going to be 30 when we are married), so I can't fathom that we will wait too long. Maybe a year or so.

CaMacho Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:34 PM

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We want to wait 3 years after we're married and hopefully we'll have a house by then. We'll be 26 when we marry and 29 when we want to have kids...perfect age for us!

Jess

leighdvm Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:36 PM

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I'm going off Depo after the HM and leaving it in God's hands.......

I'm 34 so I ain't gonna wait TOO long.....

tann22 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:36 PM

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I would love to start trying on our HM but we need to get a house first. So probably after we hit our first anniversary
we'll start!

LM903 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:38 PM

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we're still fairly young considering - so it is not in our immediate plans. i love children as does my FH - but we want some alone time first and, of course, be able to afford kids!!

VS11 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:44 PM

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEBBIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May05Bride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:48 PM

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I think we want to wait for a couple of years. Maybe around 2.

I am at a dilema where I feel I am still young and yet want to have both kids before 30

I am 25 now.. so .. NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!

july06bride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:50 PM

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Posted by hmm8191

Waiting about 2 1/2 years. I think it's important to enjoy being married just the two of you before bringing another person into the fold. JMO of course!

i completely agree- we want to wait a few years, and then have a family

M&LSept1606 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:53 PM

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Posted by Danielle2207

I really want to start right away however I would really like to have a house first. If it happens right away I will be thrilled but we aren't going to try until we are settled into a home.

ditto