Who is going to wait and who is NOT going to wait

VS11 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:47 PM

Who is going to wait and who is NOT going to wait

to have a baby after you are married??

FH and I cant wait to be parents so we are ging to shoot for a HM baby!!

Danielle2207 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:48 PM

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I really want to start right away however I would really like to have a house first. If it happens right away I will be thrilled but we aren't going to try until we are settled into a home.

adioguardi Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:49 PM

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That's great! I know you'll be wonderful parents. I have two children already from my first marriage, so FH and I are not planning on having anymore (hopefully God's plans are the same as ours).

Good luck on that HM baby!

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:50 PM

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We're waiting for at least a couple of years.

hmm8191 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:50 PM

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Waiting about 2 1/2 years. I think it's important to enjoy being married just the two of you before bringing another person into the fold. JMO of course!

natiepie1028 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:50 PM

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Well, by the time im married i will be 32 and FI with be 35, so with that said, most likely it will be right away. Im not getting any younger.

VS11 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:50 PM

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Posted by adioguardi

That's great! I know you'll be wonderful parents. I have two children already from my first marriage, so FH and I are not planning on having anymore (hopefully God's plans are the same as ours).

Good luck on that HM baby!

awww..

boobobunny Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:51 PM

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We had a baby last August...(he was an engagement baby)
so I guess we aren't waiting to start our family...but we decided to wait until next spring to start TTC again.

LisaLeo Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:54 PM

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The sooner the better, we have been together for 3 1/2 years and we have a house so we will try right away! August couldn't come any sooner!

icequeen4700 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:54 PM

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we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter, and plan on trying right away for another one (or two!)

SuzBride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:55 PM

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We want to wait at least 6 years before even considering kids. We really want to be super financially secure, plus we want some 'alone' time to travel and just be together

I'm excited to get a cat though once we move in together

SomethingBlu Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:57 PM

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We are waiting (we have A LOT of things we want to do before kids, mainly travel)...no HM baby for us...we were drunk every day...that baby would have had 'issues'...but good luck with your plan.

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VS11 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 02:58 PM

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Posted by SomethingBlu

We are waiting (we have A LOT of things we want to do before kids, mainly travel)...no HM baby for us...we were drunk every day...that baby would have had 'issues'...but good luck with your plan.

OctBride05 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:01 PM

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We are going to try for a baby right away. I cant wait to be a mommy

06NovBride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:01 PM

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I think we're going to wait a year or so...FH will be 31 when we get married and I will be 28...i plan on waiting until around 30 to have kids.

curliegirl Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:05 PM

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We are taking our 'official' honeymoon next year to the Mediterranean, so that may also be our 'babymoon'!
We've been together 4 years and HE's not getting any younger!!!!

DCSAAB06 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:06 PM

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I would love to be in a position to have a HM baby but we arent. I cant wait to be a mommy too.
We are waiting to get that house which we hope to have within a yr after we are married. And hey, if it happens prior then even better.

Today is my 29th b-day so Im not GETTING ANY YOUNGER either!

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:08 PM

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Oh, we are SOOOOOOO excited to get started on the fam, but we're waiting until we have a house and are a little more settled. I also want to enjoy life just the two of us for a while... although if it accidentally happened, I would be THRILLED!!!