Who is going to wait and who is NOT going to wait

Original post by VS11

Jun 17, 2005 02:47 PM

to have a baby after you are married??

FH and I cant wait to be parents so we are ging to shoot for a HM baby!!

jennymac Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:55 PM

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WAITING!!!! we are in no rush., if we have them at all.

Thumballina Posted: Jun 17, 2005 03:57 PM

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We're going to wait...we really want our house and have it done and fixed up the way we want it...I said two and half to three years after we're married we'll try...

MrsA814 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:02 PM

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we are starting the week of the wedding and our honeymoon we can' wait to have kids.
We have the names picked out already

ckgmwedding Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:02 PM

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HM baby for us- we ain't getting any younger

This may be TMI but the timing is right too so keep your fingers crossed

May05Bride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:03 PM

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Posted by ckgmwedding

HM baby for us- we ain't getting any younger

This may be TMI but the timing is right too so keep your fingers crossed

Good Luck! <- fertility dance

lillian771 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:05 PM

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Posted by hmm8191

Waiting about 2 1/2 years. I think it's important to enjoy being married just the two of you before bringing another person into the fold. JMO of course!

Same here.

lmykolyn12305 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:11 PM

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i want to have a bay right away but i think i might wait a year or so but if it happen it happen i will be very happy

shellnroc Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:11 PM

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I would Love to have a HM baby. But FH wants to wait a bit before we start a family.
He's younger than me and is in no rush.

I'm getting older so we can't wait too long.

PrincessConsuela Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:13 PM

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we are definetly going to wait on this one.
about 5 years or so. we want to have a house and travel and take care of puppies first before we give a try having kids!

BEANS Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:14 PM

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Posted by tann22

I would love to start trying on our HM but we need to get a house first. So probably after we hit our first anniversary
we'll start!

ditto for me

acre730 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:21 PM

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We want to wait, a little while at least...I am VERY young FI is four years older but neither of us are ready. We aren't financially ready and I also like the idea of having some 'just us' time before we have kids. My parents waited ten years to have my brother and I and I really think that has played a big part in the strength of their marriage today. Good luck to everyone who is ready though its such an exciting time!!

mrsgtobe Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:41 PM

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We are waiting for at least two years. I'll be 27 when we get married, and I am perfectly comfortable with having my kids around age 30. I want FH and I to have some 'alone' time after we get married and before we start a family.

pinky424 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:45 PM

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FH and I decided to wait about 3 and 1/2 years.

cindyandkevin Posted: Jun 17, 2005 04:54 PM

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I'd like to wait at least a year! FI already has a daughter and I don't want her to be too much older than her half-siblings. But I do want to enjoy our newleywed status for a lil while too, so no HM baby!!

Ladybug63 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 05:21 PM

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I want to start on the honeymoon but FH says no way I'll be waiting till March or April in less I poke holes in the condoms

Hay.. I've thought about it!!!

I wanted a spring/summer baby. Outdoor B-Day parties, no hot months to be prego in. Big baggy clothes.

fabsfiance Posted: Jun 17, 2005 05:56 PM

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We're going to wait 3 or 4 years. Take the time to travel ans spend time alone before we bring kids into the picture.

SweetCin704 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 06:18 PM

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We're going to start trying right away & hopefully will have a HM baby also.

Anghuy1 Posted: Jun 17, 2005 06:29 PM

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Right away it can't come too soon enough!!!

David'sbride Posted: Jun 17, 2005 07:15 PM

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At 34 (me) and 37 (him) we'd be happy if we were already preggos.

hbradio Posted: Jun 17, 2005 07:18 PM

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Posted by melissaandsean

catch me in about 5 years

I'm selfish and don't want our life to change. We love kids and want them. BUT we want to be a married couple first and enjoy all marriage without kids, has to offer!!!

This is us too!