who paid...

Original post by lucky1010

May 15, 2008 04:30 PM

Curious...
Who paid or is paying for your shower??

My friend is in another wedding and is bugging out cause the MOB is making the 4 girls pay for the entire shower!! Is that crazy?

agraydc Posted: May 15, 2008 05:11 PM

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i think my mom, his mom, my BMs are paying for it, but i dont really know that for sure

wo0shply Posted: May 15, 2008 07:49 PM

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BMs

DGoldfarb0776 Posted: May 15, 2008 07:51 PM

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Mine was a gift from my MIL.

Bella77 Posted: May 15, 2008 07:55 PM

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my MOH paid for the bulk, with help from the BMs, and my mom did a lot in terms of planning, invitations, favors, decor... it was great

BNBride60 Posted: May 15, 2008 07:57 PM

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MOB

chrispar Posted: May 15, 2008 08:05 PM

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my mom

jessnstu08 Posted: May 15, 2008 08:11 PM

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My mom paid, my MOH will do the favors and decorations
I told my mom not to ask my girls for a DIME

Soon2BMrsD Posted: May 15, 2008 08:12 PM

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my mom and god mother paid for the shower.. BM were in charge of decorating and gifts for games... they did alto

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: May 15, 2008 08:19 PM

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my mom and my sister .. sometimes bms do it if nobody else is..

oktom22 Posted: May 15, 2008 08:31 PM

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I think that my mom and MOH (my sis) are paying for majority and dividing the rest up between the rest of the BM's (there are 6 of them). One of them is my FSIL but I'm not sure if FMIL is contributing....they are keeping me pretty much in the dark, I did give them the guestlist and registry info a couple of weeks ago.

FCsBride914 Posted: May 15, 2008 08:40 PM

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My mom, she's my MOH, my grandma and my mom asked all my BM's to chip in a little but not all 10 are going too.

chrissybean77 Posted: May 15, 2008 09:30 PM

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I'm not sure who is paying for my shower, but I'm guessing it is my MOH (my sister). I don't know the details as I haven't had it yet and it's a suprise. I was however the MOH in two weddings and a BM in two others as an adult. I looked up quite a bit of info on this and most of what I could find was that the MOH is responsible for organizing and planning a shower. In a couple of the weddings I was in the MOB helped pay for some of it and the BM's chipped in for the shower in every BP I was in.

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: May 16, 2008 05:48 PM

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my mom..

jaep129 Posted: May 16, 2008 05:52 PM

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I think my mom is paying (actually dont know). My friend was in a wedding and the mom paid for the place and the BP paid for everything else.

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: May 16, 2008 05:54 PM

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i think its my bm's..and i feel terrible bc none of them have much money but i dont think my mom tried to do anything or help financially for some reason so my girls stepped up

bella1028 Posted: May 16, 2008 06:22 PM

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my parents did and my sisters definitely did a lot as well

Jenn04 Posted: May 16, 2008 07:51 PM

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MOM paid for the hall.

BM got the favors

MOH/Sister - invitations, bunch of other stuff

MOH/Other sister (younger) - prizes and games

Princess Cut Bride Posted: May 16, 2008 07:56 PM

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My mom & my MOH (sil).

MrsJ08 Posted: May 16, 2008 08:03 PM

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My Mom, all my BM's are either students or don't make too much, she didn't want them to pay. MOH (my sister) is struggling financially so theres no way she can contribute. However they are incharge of the corny games lol

toniscott Posted: May 16, 2008 08:30 PM

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My dad paid for the shower, my girls did the favors, decorations and a beautiful cake that looked like a pink present, it was so orgeous we didn't want to eat it!!