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LouMar2010 Posted:

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on seeing their fh before the ceremony?

we are getting married at the RH so our photographer told us we would need to see eachother before the ceremony in order to get all the pictures we want. (and i would like to be at my cocktail hour because there will be a mashed potatoe bar!) but FH isnt to happy because he thinks its supersticious to see me before the ceremony.
runnerbride1023 Posted:

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We are. Our ceremony doesnt start until 7 so in order to get outside photos with day light, we have no choice. He was a bit hesitant at first too, but now he thinks it will make him less nervous if he sees me before hand.

20mrsc10 Posted:

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we are bc were getting married at our rh and we want to go to our ch

JillandJoe Posted:

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we are, we don't have enough time otherwise to take pics... we r okay with it

SummerBride10 Posted:

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We're not b/c there wouldnt be time beforehand anyway (we're having an early wedding). But I dont see anything wrong with it at all.

MrsSoto Posted:

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nope we're not. I'm traditional in that sense.

DnT2010 Posted:

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no, we arent seeing each other first. im a bit of a traditionalist.

kimmaymb20 Posted:

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No way no how I'm a traditionalist and there will be plenty of time to take pics afterwards

RedsBride Posted:

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im traditional also, i dont want to see him before the ceremony. there will be time for pics after but if u dont want to miss the cocktail hour then theres nothing wrong with that. a lot of couples see each other now before the ceremony. my friend did it and said it was a very personal, intimate moment. so u can kind of set it up that way if u want.

RitasEngaged Posted:

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no i made sure there was plenty of time between church and ch so we can take pics and make ch also we are taking all of our pics at wm

lori7570 Posted:

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No, we have enough time between the chuch and the ch for pics...

I always pictured seeing FH at the alter and walking up to him...corny..I know!!
Future Mrs H Posted:

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I am not. We are having a early wedding and there wont be any time before. Besides, I want FH to first see me as I walk down the aisle. I want to WOW him!!!

MarjorieFrank Posted:

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Nope. I am not superstitious at all but I am traditional in that sense.

Kiki1103 Posted:

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Nope, FH is really superstitious. I am not as much but want to keep everything traditional.

Jen84 Posted:

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nope, i want to see him for the first time when i'm walking down the aisle!

JAAMS Posted:

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We aren't sure yet. There's pros & cons both ways I suppose

MikesBride2B Posted:

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We are. I definitely want to go to the CH. Plus we will be signing a ketubah before the ceremony so we'd see each other anyway.

Ivansgirl Posted:

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We weren't going to but our ceremony is at 4:30 CH is at 7 or 7:30 And we want to be there, So we are toying with the idea of taking a few picture before. We have no idea where yet but it will work itself out. Plus, I know we will both be balling as I walk down the aisle regardless lol.

shortiroc127 Posted:

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We're going to see eachother in the morning, before we start getting ready, but we won't see eachother all dressed up until the ceremony.

Lsorrent Posted:

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I'm in the traditional group. FH and I will also be sleeping in different places the night before and won't see each other until the doors to the church open.

ETA: my ceremony is at 3 and my CH doesn't start until 7:30, so we'll have PLENTY of time in between to take pics off site, take pics at the RH, and still make CH.

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