Who should the Bachelerette party accomodate?

What I mean is I would love to do a spa and then dinner. However, maybe some people won't like that. Or a great dinner in NYC, then maybe a show. However, I know some people won't go due to me wanting NYC.

So, do I pick something that everyone would go to and not necessarily what I want. I am not into clubbing or strippers. My MOH who happens to be my sister won't be 21 until the weekend b/4 my wedding. We are having a surprise party for her the weekend b/4 the wedding.

I wanted to go to the Borgata but that won't work out since she won't be able to gamble.

I would love to know what people think on this one.

Karen

I think you should do what you want...if people don't want to come...then they won't! Dinner and a show in NYC is a great idea. I think we are going to do the same thing.


ETS: You will never make everyone happy...so make sure you are happy!

We went to Foxwoods for my MOH's BP and it was great...honestly we did little gambling. THey have a SPA, A Comedy CLub, a Dance club and some nice restaurants.

We went up got in our room, hung out with some bottles of wine. Walked around, then went to dinner (for about 3 hours we were having such a good time) then when to the club, then myself and the bride went a gambled alittle!
Everyone had a great time!

I think you shoudl do what you want because its about you and if they are understanding (not selfish) people they will go no matter what! I know I would!

What do you want to do?? I think that the spa and dinner is a great idea, and if others want to go out for a few drinks after- I'm sure that they wouldn't be twisting your arm. Unfortunatly you are limited with what your MOH can do. That's why the spa and dinner is nice( and she can play a big role in that ) and then the rest of the BM's can take you out for drinks.
Good Luck.. I'm sure that whatever you girls pick will be lots of fun!

Why don't you ask the women that you want to have go? If most say NYC is ok, but can't afford to go to a show, then go to a club?

If most say they can't afford NYC then maybe you can do a day spa thing? It's not that expensive and you might be able to get a break on the price.

The only thing I want to mention is that with a spa, you're usually by yourself and the masseuse or facialist while the other girls are by themselves...so you're not really enjoying it *with* them per se. I did this for my 30th birthday and it was like 'ok I could have done that on my own' and not asked the girls to join me. If it was all in one big room where we could sit and gab, then it's fun. But that's just how I felt...