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Whos paying for bridal shower?????

Original post by Bellez95

Im sooooooo stressed right now and dont know what to do. My mom is saying the bridal party should throw it and I want her to.

what are you ladies doing???
Valor06 Posted:

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my sister.

kristi313 Posted:

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i'm thinking my mom will with help from my MOH and my sister who is a bm

Soon2BeMrsFitzy Posted:

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My mom threw mine.

DCLM726 Posted:

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my mom and my girls are paying for it.

ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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Posted by futuremrsmultari

An Aunt from my mom's side and an Aunt from my dad's side...

at least that's what I'm gathering from their not-so-slick-planing....



Your having one YAAAYY!!

I remember u posted awhile back that you werent sure.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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my mom!

ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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I think I will end up paying a little, but mostly my mom.

I know I will be planning it too b/c there is just no way to surprise me...lol
DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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Mine was a surprise gift from my FMIL.. I think some was payed for by my aunt as well. Not sure on that.

AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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My BP is broke. My mom is most likely paying for it. She may ask my aunt for help and my FMIL offered to assist also.

Cheryl28 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08

my mom is throwing mine.



me too...my mom wouldn't nhave it any other way. mI paid for al my friends but they said we will go away for my bach. party
BNBride60 Posted:

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My Mom is paying but I know my MOH (sister) and two of my BMs (best friends) will help her with all the planning and arrangements.

nmagel Posted:

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Posted by ynksfan167

my mom and my girls are paying for it.


same here.
angl2001 Posted:

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i think my BP is throwing it

november152008 Posted:

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MY GRANDMA PAID A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF IT FOR ALL HER GRANDDAUGHTERS (I HAVE ONE GIRL COUSIN AND 2 SISTERS AND WE ALL LOST OUR MOTHERS MY AUNT AND MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY)
so grandma pays a certain amount the same for each granddaughter im the last granddaughter to get married so she will pay a part of mine too...my STEP MOTHER pays the remaining amount after the part my grandmother pays i think my grandma puts about 4000 into it....

and my sisters (maid of honor) will do the decorating invitation costs and what not

so it is split amung them all....
but like i said i am the last one to get married so we have it down to a science lol

angl2001 Posted:

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Its amazing with my BP can come up with on a budget!! They also know ill be pissed if i found out they spent alot!!

ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by november152008

MY GRANDMA PAID A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF IT FOR ALL HER GRANDDAUGHTERS (I HAVE ONE GIRL COUSIN AND 2 SISTERS AND WE ALL LOST OUR MOTHERS MY AUNT AND MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY)
so grandma pays a certain amount the same for each granddaughter im the last granddaughter to get married so she will pay a part of mine too...my STEP MOTHER pays the remaining amount after the part my grandmother pays i think my grandma puts about 4000 into it....

and my sisters (maid of honor) will do the decorating invitation costs and what not

so it is split amung them all....
but like i said i am the last one to get married so we have it down to a science lol



$4000

are showers that expensive? lol im clueless
angl2001 Posted:

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wow i didnt even think it would cost that much! Seems alot! i guess it all depends wheere you hold it and how many people you are feeding...mine will cost like $1,000 id guess

november152008 Posted:

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it also depends on the guest list
my shower will have about 125pp and the hall we have it at it is about 55pp
i know it will be at the same place that my sisters and cousin had it too

but the price does not matter my grandma spends 4000 on it and if it is more my step mother pays
if it is less then i will get the remaining in a card


i just want to try to be a bit suprised hopefully
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by november152008

it also depends on the guest list
my shower will have about 125pp and the hall we have it at it is about 55pp
i know it will be at the same place that my sisters and cousin had it too

but the price does not matter my grandma spends 4000 on it and if it is more my step mother pays
if it is less then i will get the remaining in a card


i just want to try to be a bit suprised hopefully


oh no i wasnt judging or anything i am totally clueless honestly

i had my shower at a great hall and we had 75 people and everyone said it was like a wedding - we had centerpieces and great favors etc. so i have no idea what they spent but that makes me wonder now you know?

thats a great system - i am the baby so our system is all worked out too!
november152008 Posted:

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YEAH it is a SYSTEM kinda funny too because we all basically got engaged a year between
my cousin got married in 02...my one sister in 05 and another sister in 06 and me now
so it is one good thing after the next....

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