So far, FH and I are paying for it by ourselves and a little help from family...I think
MrsDrinkh20
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My parents, the FILs and FH and I are each doing a bit...my parents are doing most of it...we are very lucky.
ilovejay1007
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we lucked out.. we thought we were going to be paying for everything ourselves.. but we are splitting everything with my parents and his 3 ways. so we are responsible for 1/3 of everything!
ponzita18
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my parents are giving us 10,000 towards the wedding then my fh is doing the rest.
Future Mulligan
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We are going to be paying for everything which is totally stressing me out, because even though we haven't booked yet I know how much to expect to spend on the RH alone. Hopefully my parents will offer to pay for my dress or something but I HIGHLY doubt it They say they can't afford to help us and my mom is already making me feel guilty about all the trips they'll be having to make from florida for the e-party, shower, wedding etc. At least FH family is more excited lol
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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My parents, grandma, & FH's parents are all helping out. FH & I will most likely not need to spend a dime We're spoiled brats Not really, just very lucky to have our fams
mdawg
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YAYYY I THOUGHT I WAS BEING A SPOILED LONG ISLAND BRAT!!!
my parents are paying for all of it.. we have a budget that we have to stick to, but in florida, we will probably be spending half the budget, and the rest can possibly go towards a house.
TlovesD
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My FH and I are paying by ourselves...hopefully we'll get some help from our parents. My sister might help as well. It's extremely stressful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mishmosh328
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we are paying for most of it
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by mdawg
YAYYY I THOUGHT I WAS BEING A SPOILED LONG ISLAND BRAT!!!
my parents are paying for all of it.. we have a budget that we have to stick to, but in florida, we will probably be spending half the budget, and the rest can possibly go towards a house.
Yeah I know... I was sooo tempted to say screw this and have the wedding elsewhere where prices arent though the roof like LI
mdawg
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yeah the comparison between the two is shocking. my mom gave us a big budget, not realizing that the prices are so different between here and florida so she was like 'well now that youre only going to be spending half of the budget, you can have the other half to do with what you wish.' i was like 'HAH sweet'
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we are paying for most too, my mom said that she may help but we can't really relay on that.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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yeah the comparison between the two is shocking. my mom gave us a big budget, not realizing that the prices are so different between here and florida so she was like 'well now that youre only going to be spending half of the budget, you can have the other half to do with what you wish.' i was like 'HAH sweet'
FH was like 'Uhhh do we have to spend all the money we're getting from them?!?' He wanted liek spend only 20k... I was like uhhh hun, the RH alone is going to cost about that much
ETA: Believe me, I would loveee to save some of that $ to go towards a house, but having a LI wedding, it really isnt feasible
dazies1011
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We are paying for all of it...... My mom will help with the dress.
FalNBill
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were paying for all of it.... my mom said she's going to 'try' and buy my invites but cannot make any promises...
SOTHISISLOVE53109
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We are paying for it....no one has even mentioned about helping us out...............totally stressed out!
mdawg
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by mdawg
yeah the comparison between the two is shocking. my mom gave us a big budget, not realizing that the prices are so different between here and florida so she was like 'well now that youre only going to be spending half of the budget, you can have the other half to do with what you wish.' i was like 'HAH sweet'
FH was like 'Uhhh do we have to spend all the money we're getting from them?!?' He wanted liek spend only 20k... I was like uhhh hun, the RH alone is going to cost about that much
ETA: Believe me, I would loveee to save some of that $ to go towards a house, but having a LI wedding, it really isnt feasible
yeah my parents gave us the $20,000 budget, and with everything it will probably be half that, MAYBE a little more if we splurge.
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So far we are preparing to paying ourselves but, my dad, mom, and cousin will help but, I dont know how much they can help???
MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..
