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Who's paying for the wedding

Original post by AntNick1101

So far, FH and I are paying for it by ourselves and a little help from family...I think

HotAir Posted:

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We are paying for it all. We don't have anyone that can help....stinks.

rsolano222 Posted:

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Fh, myself and my parents are paying for it. FH's parents said they'd 'help out' but we're not counting on it since FSIL is getting married Nov 09 and they pretty much told us they need to help her

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted:

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FH and I are paying-STRESSFUL!!

Anyone want to make a donation!??? j/k!!
mdawg Posted:

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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.
tinadansr Posted:

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Fh and I no contributions have been discussed but ...thats ok it will be our first big investment together!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me
Tori9299 Posted:

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We are paying for it ourselves. My parents want to give us 10,000 if they can. My mom is buying my dress.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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FH & I decided we are going to try to save as as much as possible so we can have some $$ to work with after the wedding

MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz


Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me



Im cheap too...im jewish lol! Id love to see your dress Dina!
AntNick1101 Posted:

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Posted by lmt245


Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz


Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me



Im cheap too...im jewish lol! Id love to see your dress Dina!



the whole cheap college student thing comes in handy now. I want to stop thinking about the money but no matter how hard I try something pop's up. And our first RH payment is due next month
TlovesD Posted:

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Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me



Acutally 2700 is not THAT bad..i've seen worse!
LnF0405 Posted:

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Posted by TlovesD


Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz


Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me



Acutally 2700 is not THAT bad..i've seen worse!




If that is not that bad I dont want to go where you girl are buying dress another cheap one here
kabo0831 Posted:

Re: Who's paying for the wedding

me and my fh

TlovesD Posted:

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Posted by TlovesD


Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz


Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me



Acutally 2700 is not THAT bad..i've seen worse!




If that is not that bad I dont want to go where you girl are buying dress another cheap one here



no, no i meant that i've seen worse ..i have no idea what im going to be paying for a dress but i also would like to find one under 2,000 (since my mom's going to be helping me pay for ti). If someone was giving me 2,700 to buy a dress i would be like a pig in sh**!!!!!!!!! I LOVE dresses!!
Irishny8 Posted:

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we are paying for all which is why we havent booked anything b/c we have no $ and i'm hoping i'll be able to stay a 2009 bride and not go to 2010 but i'm still not a 100% sure. I want to book by the summer but this has been just an awful week and stuff has come up we didn't expect so i'm not sure i'll be able to book anything anytime soon. sorry to be the downer on this post.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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FH and I, with possible contributions from both families. We have very real and reasonable expectations (I work as a special events coordinator, so I can use some professional contacts and get a few deals ). I know this business, I know how to work with it and around it. If our parents help us, it will be great. If not, it will be stressful but we can manage. I've done a lot of events with very little money, so I can definitely pull it off
ponzita18 Posted:

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Posted by ponzita18

my parents are giving us 10,000 towards the wedding then my fh is doing the rest.





Plus my mom is paying for my dress veil, bachlorette party and bridal shower.
Luvbsb4eva Posted:

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We're very lucky that my parents are paying for the vast majority of the wedding... FH's parents are paying for the rehearsal dinner, FH and I are paying for the honeymoon, pre-cana, e-ring, wedding rings, and e-pics, and my parents are paying for the rest! I always say to them that I feel so bad and ask them if they are sure, but they say that it's just something they've always wanted to do!

mdawg Posted:

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Posted by lmt245


Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz


Posted by mdawg


Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

MY STEP MOTHER (SINCE SHE HAS ALL MY FATHERS MONEY) SAYS SHE IS GIVING US 10,000 PLUS 2,700 FOR MY DRESS ... HIS PARENTS SAID THEY WERE GOING TO PAY THE 5TH RH PAYMENT WHICH IS 20,000( THE RH IS GOUNG TO BE 42,000 IN TOTAL) AND MY MOM SAYS SHE IS GOING TO TRY AND GIVE US THE MONEY FOR THE BAND AND WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH EVERYTHING ELSE..




TWENTY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS FOR A DRESS??? WHAT IN THE HELL...IS IT MADE OUTTA SWAROVSKI CRYSTAL? Lol i cant believe how cheap i am sometimes... if i saw a pricetag like that on a dress, i would wet myself... i really would. For those prices, your wedding is gonna be FANTASTIC!!!!! Im glad im not getting married in new york.



I too cannot justify spending so much $$ on a dress that will be worn for what 10 hrs the most? Call me cheap too!! Hahaha I will try to stick to my 1000 budget which still is even pushing it for me



Im cheap too...im jewish lol! Id love to see your dress Dina!



im jewish too.. but i didnt want to offend anyone lol. i'm the mega cheap jew. lollll
MegBert Posted:

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Posted by mdawg

YAYYY I THOUGHT I WAS BEING A SPOILED LONG ISLAND BRAT!!!

my parents are paying for all of it.. we have a budget that we have to stick to, but in florida, we will probably be spending half the budget, and the rest can possibly go towards a house.




I am that spoiled LI brat they are paying for everything LOVE MOM AND DAD!!! Cant wait do get totally spoiled

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