So i'm at my brother's house, and i can't quite remember how the conversation turned to my wedding...but it did. he then says 'So how much $$ are you paying per person?' so the conversation follows:
Me: 'Why do you want to know?' Him: ' What's the big deal? just tell me how much $$ you are spending a person?' Me: 'I don't really feel comfortable talking about it. ' [because i know he'll be a gossip and tell other friends & family, and it's just none of their business] Him: ' Well i would think you would tell people to make sure that everyone gives enough to cover their plate' Me: 'W T F? i am not having a wedding to make sure i get lots of $$. ' His GF: [whom i nicknamed- 'The Whore' can ya tell i don't like her much?] 'Like i thought that that's information you make sure EVERYONE knows, so like, they know they have to give a certain amount!' Me: 'That's the most stupid thing I've ever heard...so if I tell you i'm paying $250 a head, you're gonna give me $500? YEAH RIGHT. and NO it's not something you do--you don't just go around telling all your guests how much you spent per person.' The Whore: 'Oh, like I would do that...just so they know.'
Seriously? ?! what is wrong with them?! Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.
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Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.
No doubt!!!
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I love your email
Love love love
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' Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.'
LMAO....that would be awesome!
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Posted by MJDoc12
So i'm at my brother's house, and i can't quite remember how the conversation turned to my wedding...but it did. he then says 'So how much $$ are you paying per person?' so the conversation follows:
Me: 'Why do you want to know?' Him: ' What's the big deal? just tell me how much $$ you are spending a person?' Me: 'I don't really feel comfortable talking about it. ' [because i know he'll be a gossip and tell other friends & family, and it's just none of their business] Him: ' Well i would think you would tell people to make sure that everyone gives enough to cover their plate' Me: 'W T F? i am not having a wedding to make sure i get lots of $$. ' His GF: [whom i nicknamed- 'The Whore' can ya tell i don't like her much?] 'Like i thought that that's information you make sure EVERYONE knows, so like, they know they have to give a certain amount!' Me: 'That's the most stupid thing I've ever heard...so if I tell you i'm paying $250 a head, you're gonna give me $500? YEAH RIGHT. and NO it's not something you do--you don't just go around telling all your guests how much you spent per person.' The Whore: 'Oh, like I would do that...just so they know.'
Seriously? ?! what is wrong with them?! Ron needs to come up with a b*tch slap icon.
we do need that icon.
I have no idea why so many people ask but it really is nobody's business. Would they decline if it were say $29.99 per person or give you a $29.99 gift
The gift (if one is even given) is based on the relationship with the couple NOT the location of the wedding. A good friend had her wedding at a firehouse last year and it was lovely. I know they did not spend a ton of money but I still gave them a $200 check. It's a wedding for God's sake not a club with a cover charge
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Okay I'll post how to B slap in two parts - this is part one.
Can I just tell you, it doenst get easier either. Same thing happened to me and when I outright refused to devulge the information, they then take upon themselves to 'guesstimate' how much you are spending and spread that rumor around .
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
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re: ron's 'icons'
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I think you need to take the 'wh*re' out the the parking lot and give her a good b*tch slappin'!!
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Okay I'll post how to B slap in two parts - this is part one.
i'm gonna sip my champagne now -
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Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
ditto
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Can I just tell you, it doenst get easier either. Same thing happened to me and when I outright refused to devulge the information, they then take upon themselves to 'guesstimate' how much you are spending and spread that rumor around .
i'm sure they will do this. they are utterly tacky and ghetto fabulous people. i love my brother but The Whore has destroyed his sense of morals and ethics.
before he met her --- he would NEVER have asked such a question!
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No where near as good as Ron's but here ya go
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Posted by divabride
ETP - Ron, that has to be THE FUNNIEST THING YOU'VE EVER POSTED!!!!!
