why is all this happening a month before the wedding?
Original post by LyseeH
So, I came home from work today...long day we are playing war, in gas masks, ect...and I receive a message from my father, that my parents, brother and sister aren't coming to the wedding. My sister is the flower girl mind you. As a wedding present from my grandmother, she paid for their plane tickets so they could be at my wedding. All they had to do was pay for THEIR expenses. My FIL are paying for the wedding. I have paid for half my sisters dress and was just about to order her shoes. They tell me that they can't afford the wedding I have helped them, my future in laws have bent over backwards and my grandma just paid for their plane tickets...I'm so mad. They didn't even want to call my future in laws to tell them to cancel the cottage! And my mom has to THINK about my sister coming...she wouldn't be flying alone, my BM will be on the same flight and my brother and sister n law will be at the wedding as well! Why is all this happening?????
kitty1224
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I am so so sorry that your family is putting you threw this. I am having a situation with my mom not coming also, I know what disappointment this is for you. Stay strong, remeber that you are getting married and even though your family can't make it, its about you and FH and the life you are starting together. I could only send you hugs and pray that your family reconsiders, but if not do not let them destroy your day, you deserve to have the greatest day of your life. I am so sorry.
luvabul
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thats just awful that your family is acting that way, i dont know what to say...i cant imagine anyone wanting to miss their daughters wedding... or not being enthusiastic about it especially since your trying to make an effort! im so sorry... i hope it all works out...in the end its you and FH and the people who truly love you and want to be there will pull through...good luck with all the wedding planning, and try not to stress too much...
queenb07
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that they will reconsider and you can work something out with them. Regardless, you are marrying the man you love and that's all that matters. Sending you and
