Why is it

Espo22 Posted: Dec 28, 2006 09:14 AM

Re: Why is it

Posted by Snowflake08

I dont really think I'm a totally laid back person - Maybe it hasnt hit me yet
i just keep feeling like i'm missing something, like why am i not freaking out and stressed

I was the same way...i was like hmmm why does everyone stress out, i don't get it...but then problems started occuring, things such as guest list and then the bride always kinda gets stuck in the middle trying to make everyone happy. Then trying to schedule appts with vendors can get hard, ive had some who only do weekdays and its hard for me to get out to some of those places after work...But now is the hardest for us, we are paying off the RH and e-party at the same time, we have two installments to pay this week...but after our e-party things will be fine for a while so can't wait for that, well at least in regards to that it will be fine.

but hopefully you wont have to deal with stuff about the guestlist and a bunch of other stuff...enjoy being stress free

Autumn08 Posted: Dec 28, 2006 09:31 AM

Re: Why is it

Bridezillas? Just Kidding!!

I was stressed out at first! Whoah! I really didn't want to plan and when I did I couldn't get FH to help me. It's such a big task I didn't even want to do it. I think I stress out about some things but overall not too much anymore.

I don' t like it when people say 'It's my day!' It's not. It's a special day to celebrate your marraige. Or 'My BMs aren't doing anything I'm going to fire them!' They're not getting paid! They're mostly for moral support! I think people get so wrapped up in the details and forget that the day is to have fun and celebrate with friends and family.

Espo22 Posted: Dec 28, 2006 09:42 AM

Re: Why is it

Posted by Autumn08

Bridezillas? Just Kidding!!

I was stressed out at first! Whoah! I really didn't want to plan and when I did I couldn't get FH to help me. It's such a big task I didn't even want to do it. I think I stress out about some things but overall not too much anymore.

I don' t like it when people say 'It's my day!' It's not. It's a special day to celebrate your marraige. Or 'My BMs aren't doing anything I'm going to fire them!' They're not getting paid! They're mostly for moral support! I think people get so wrapped up in the details and forget that the day is to have fun and celebrate with friends and family.

OMG THANK YOU!!!!! yesterday in a thread someone was complaining about something, and i thought they were wrong and i said so...and others were like omg that is wrong its your day the world should revolve around you...i said the world does not revolve around us, we should be glad that these people are there to celebrate with us. I thought i was the crazy one for a second, i was like am i the only one who disagrees