MY FH wants to send out the invites about 3 months early bc we have teh help to stuff the invitations NOW- it is bothering me!!! I was told that I shouldnt have the invites sitting around due to the weather being hot so now my FH thinks we should stuff them and send them out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! VENT OVER! Thoughts?????
wenR
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??? I thought we were supposed to send them out at the 3 month mark?
AngnShaun
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when is your rsvp date?
nwkelsey
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could you stuff them and put them in a cool place till you are ready to send them out??
bontwon
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yeah i just dont know why it is making me soo upset like in tears
emc282rjm
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Posted by bontwon
yeah i just dont know why it is making me soo upset like in tears
It's probably making you so upset because you're getting closer to the wedding and feeling overwhelmed. I'd take a deep breath and try to put it in perspective.
I think it's FINE to mail them out at the 3 month mark. You're not going to make them in a day, so it's not like you're sending them out tomorrow. We sent ours out at the 3 month mark (approximately), and our RSVP was a month before our date. You're fine! Don't let this get to you!
bontwon
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OK ty - I am sitting at work in tears this is ridiculous! I want to laugh bc I feel silly crying over invitations and when I should send them out! thanks for listening
bontwon
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RSVP date is September 20th
GracieJMay2010
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Generally, they should be send out 6-4 weeks before the RSVP date.
This way people wont loose them, forget them, forget about them.
Its hard to think about a wedding in October when you are going to your friends house for a 4th of July bbq.
Can you send them out at the 3 month mark? absolutly. But it just gives people more time to forget/loose/whatever the invite and RSVP.
