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Why must this happen before the wedding(vent very long)

Original post by edsprincess

We live under his parents because his parents can't afford the morgage without Eddies contribution with that in mind....Okay story goes.... About 3 weeks ago I called the girl who normaly cuts my hair to see if she'll do a side job. It would be me and 2 other girls. She told me $100 each. okay so she's making $300 in her own pocket. So Fmil gives me a number of a woman that her manager knows. Said she'll give me a good deal so I called her. She's the same price except sh's $10-15 more on the trial. And Andrea(Fmil) says what about her hair. I don't know. Why can't she come here afterwards. She wasn't too happy with that answer. So I spoke to my mom and asked can Andrea come over for her hair. My mom said nothing against her but she has alot that day. Having people over and for another to get the hair done is a bit much and the woman said she had to be at my moms at 5am for 3 girls. I wasn't going to get up at 4am so Andrea can get her hair done. So I decided to use my girl. So Andrea can use the one she got. Again she wasn't happy. I called the woman to let her know I decided not to use her and that Andrea would still like to get her hair done. I give her Andreas number. 1 1/2 weeks later this woman decides to call Andrea back. Says she won't do just one girls hair. She'll do at least 2.

kris15198 Posted:

Re: Why must this happen before the wedding(vent very long)


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Posted by nferrandi

Don't even think about the housing issue until after the wedding and HM. That will also give evryone time to cool off. Just focus on your beautiful wedding day and let everything else roll off for the time being.



I agree

It sounds like your FMIL is being very sensitive. Believe it or not a wedding can be very diffficult for the parents too. It sounds like she depends on your FH for a lot, esp since her husband is sick. I would just ignore it the best you can, be the better person.



I agree! It's probably hard on your FMIL. It stinks that she has to cause such problems. Hang in there because I'm sure that everything will turn out perfect. And what a great FH you have! He went to battle against his mom for you! Hang on to that one!


I agree.
tiffandmatt Posted:

Re: Why must this happen before the wedding(vent very long)

Perhaps your FMIL is just really frustrated right now, since things are rough with your FFIL's health right now, your FMIl is probably under a lot of stress and worry and is taking it out in the wrong areas. I'm sure things will quiet down before the wedding. Maybe you could have a heart to heart with her? Good luck.

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