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hildie Posted:

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I just Feel SOOO lazy and do want to do anything wedding related lately??? is anyone else going through this or is it just me..

and the fact that I have some type of event every weekend is NOT helping at all...
SummerBeauty Posted:

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I'm the same way. I am naturally a procrastinator and when I have a million other things to deal with that are important RIGHT NOW I have a hard time working for something that is still 18 months away.

I really do have to get a move on--but I don't think there is anything wrong with you!
hildie Posted:

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OMG this is exactly how I feel.. I keep saying ' I have more than enough time over and over' I am afraid by the time it hits me, and I wake up, all the vendors I want will be booked and then i will become BRIDEZILLA
SummerBeauty Posted:

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Posted by hildie

OMG this is exactly how I feel.. I keep saying ' I have more than enough time over and over' I am afraid by the time it hits me, and I wake up, all the vendors I want will be booked and then i will become BRIDEZILLA



I know! It totally sucks to feel like that. But I think you have to remember that when there are other things that are going on in your life that are important right now--wedding goes to the back burner, at least for me.

What I did is make a list. The list is in priority order of the vendors that are the most important to me, for example photographer is number one. I then gave myself a timeframe for each--when I wanted to have them booked by. For my Photographer has to be booked by January 5th. Then DJ/Band by January 31st. This has helped to keep me remembering that my life cannot revolve around planning the wedding, but having a goal to reach for each thing keeps me on track. According to my plan--I will have everything booked by March with the exclusion of limo and flowers which I dont really know when I am going to do & the hotel block is a year before, so in June.

It might make you feel better to do something like this!

GOOD LUCK!
hildie Posted:

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OH wow this is an awesome idea!!!!!!!!!!!!! Guess what I am going to be doing when I get home.. I purchased this awesome planner from Amazon it is amazing and it will help me also.. thanks soo much
SummerBeauty Posted:

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Have fun!

hildie Posted:

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Thank u
b2b2013 Posted:

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I hit that rut too a little while back. Thankfully we have the ability to do that- just relax! You'll be fine
sportif7 Posted:

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i feel like im not stressing but i should be...i know i want li sounds already, i just have to book them (i'm not even gonna shop em), i've gotten some quotes from photographers so i just have to make meetings with them now, same with video, and florist i sorta have to use stefans or spitz and peck, although i'm going to shop them just to see...but i feel like i should have something to worry about...ever since i came home from vacay i really do have a clearer mind then when i left...

hildie Posted:

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Thank goodness we have a DJ and its once less thing we have to worry about, I know my florist she's just wating for us to go back to book her and show us a sample..and I KNOW I want benchwerk I just never have the time to meet with them ... I think I need another vacay to clear my mind!
sportif7 Posted:

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we should book a group cruise for 2012 haha- get a discount rate for all the ladies to clear their heads before 2013 starts...

hildie Posted:

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OMG that will be awesome!
Irishbride16 Posted:

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Yea I'm feeling the same with school and all my classes and all my dam papers I have to write I have nor be thinking about anything but school and getting good grades to graduate so I hear u

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