I'm having a backyard engagement party. It's not a bbq it's going to be caterer and really classy. How do you word it so people don't show up in the right attire?
HSsweethearts
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I'm not really sure how to word it, but I think the invitation itself will show the theme. If you send out a more formal invitation (plainer cardstock, not little pictures of umbrella and drinks), it should show the formality of the event. I would also just say it's at your home and not mention 'backyard'
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i don't think i'd write anything about the attire.
maybe word of mouth would be the way to go if you're worried ... but honestly, i think most people come dressed nicely to engagement parties.
christine2010
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the type of invitation that you send should reflect the style that you are going for.
justnicethings
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backyard chic.
JayBee216
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Posted by justnicethings
backyard chic.
LOVE this!!! or like 'Backyard cocktail chic' so people don't think it means to wear their best jeans or something!
justnicethings
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i used to work at a high end wedding invitation place, and they threw the word 'chic' on to everything! it works, though!
FutureMrsLots
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love the backyard chic. That's a great idea
justnicethings
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even just 'cocktail chic' works.
geegee827
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You could also put 'Garden Party'
mybabylovesmoi
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When my company sends out their holiday party invite (It is at an upscale hotel in nyc), they include the phrase 'Festive Attire.' It tells your guests - 'please don't be schlubbs' in a fun , upbeat way if that makes any sense. If any guests have questions on what that means, they can always call you.
One year these college kids got caught crashing - it didn't take a genius, they hadn't donned their 'festive attire' and stood out like sore thumbs.
lpk586
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My girlfriend had an engagement 'garden party.' Girls think, 'ok, wear a dress' and hopefully make their men follow!
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Posted by lpk586
My girlfriend had an engagement 'garden party.' Girls think, 'ok, wear a dress' and hopefully make their men follow!
lol, I hope not follow in their exact steps since dresses don't look great with hairy legs.
