Would this be rude? EDITED to include letter

Original post by AeroJenn

Mar 25, 2007 01:33 PM

I posted below about a guest who RSVP'd for more people than she was invited with. I've tried getting in touch with her via phone like 6 times (even left a message). She's not answering her phone and her answering machine is full (which means she hasnt checked in in forever).

I'm really upset at the situation and the only way I can think of getting in touch with her is to mail her a note! Would it be out of line or rude to mail her a note/letter telling her the situation and asking her to please call me ASAP?

Here's what i was going to write:

Dear Lxxxxx,

Hope all is well. I've tried calling you many times but your voice mailbox seems to be full and I haven't been able to get in touch with you. Chris and I received your RSVP card for the wedding and noticed that you replied for 3 people. Unfortunately, we were onyl able to invite you with one guest, as it stated on your inner envelope. We wish we could have invited you with Rxxxxxxxx and Sxxxxx, however, we are already over our limit and we just weren't able to do so.
Again, we are very sorry that we couldn't invite you with two guests, but we hope you understand our reasoning. Please fee free to call me if you have any questions. In the meantime, I will mark you down for two instead.

Love,
jenn and chris

luvabul Posted: Mar 25, 2007 04:54 PM

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thats PERFECT
i cant believe she did that

bettybcafe Posted: Mar 25, 2007 04:59 PM

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Posted by Dee9503

No, I don't think it's rude, but she still may not get back to you.

Yea..exactly what I was thinking. You are def. not rude..in fact she is the one being rude. I honestly do hope that she calls you back and lets you know that she received the letter and will only be bringing a guest..

cmrcmr0430 Posted: Mar 25, 2007 05:01 PM

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Sounds very good to me!!

ostrichhh Posted: Mar 25, 2007 05:29 PM

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not rude at all. in fact your letter is quite polite and civil. it is excellent

anitsirk46 Posted: Mar 25, 2007 05:42 PM

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no way! thats a great note and PS who gets invited with 2 guests anyway?? i've never heard of such a thing.

Michy Posted: Mar 25, 2007 05:43 PM

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I don't think that is rude at all. I think that is the right thing to do.

ruzi777 Posted: Mar 25, 2007 05:45 PM

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I do not think it is Rude.

I think it is Very Rude of them to go ahead and do that.
I think what you wrote is Perfect!!!

AlliCatB Posted: Mar 25, 2007 07:07 PM

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Posted by GettinHutched

You're not rude at all Jenn- she's the one who's rude! You do what you gotta do!!

agreed

FutureMrsGK Posted: Mar 25, 2007 07:49 PM

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that letter is perfect and right to the point

LImama Posted: Mar 25, 2007 09:14 PM

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Hi girls, could I jump in with a quick question? Jenn I noticed your date is June 3, and you are already receiving RSVP's! My daughter's wedding is June 30, and we weren't even going to mail our invitations out until end of April (8 weeks before), asking for RSVP by June 1, about a month before the wedding..

Are we way behind?? I'm starting to panic now!!

And no, Jenn, I don't think your note would be rude AT ALL!!

jaiese Posted: Mar 25, 2007 09:26 PM

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totally fine! I hope it works out okay.

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Mar 25, 2007 09:28 PM

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Posted by GettinHutched

You're not rude at all Jenn- she's the one who's rude! You do what you gotta do!!

I agee 100%

snydl40 Posted: Mar 25, 2007 11:42 PM

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Nope-I think the note is perfect-not rude at all.

sugarkube4 Posted: Mar 25, 2007 11:46 PM

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OK, she has balls to think it's OK for her to bring more than one guest.. I would have written her a letter and asked her exactly WHAT was she thinking!!!!!!!!!!

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Mar 26, 2007 12:06 AM

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that is NOT rude at all...

it was rude of them to invite another person then what you ASKED of her....

do what needs to get done or they wont come at all.. lol