would you be mad...

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Posted by Nichole2010

if you had a cousin...and you didnt really like her....and the second she found out you were getting married..she decided to start making wedding plans of her own...even though she wasnt even engaged...then she set her date for 4 months before your wedding???

thats the situation im in...and im kinda pissy about it...

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girl i feel ur pain.
when my sister got enaged and set her date. my cousin forced her b/f to get engaged. my cousin planned her wedding so fast. she got married the week beofre my sister did. its just jealousy. imma tell u the same thing i told my sister. worry about ur wedding only and don't bother with her. make ur day special and don't even think about her wedding.

I would be pissed and refuse to go to her wedding and tell everyone in the family why. Call me a bizitch but I never let go of grudges. It's a crutch I have...

ETA: If she was ACTUALLY engaged I wouldn't be as mad...

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Posted by AdriandSteve

wait.. u said she wasn't engaged. Is she engaged now?

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she got engaged on new years eve....after she decided to make her wedding right before mine..

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Posted by StaceYums81

I would be pissed and refuse to go to her wedding and tell everyone in the family why. Call me a bizitch but I never let go of grudges. It's a crutch I have...

ETA: If she was ACTUALLY engaged I wouldn't be as mad...

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i honestly dont think i am going..i didnt like her to begin with and now i def. dont like her..

i feel you- im kind of in a similar situation. my borther got engaged last january and is getting married this november. i got engaged a few weeks ago and he keeps making little remarks about how i'd better not get married before him. i can tell that my FSIL feels the same way. i certainly dont want to steal his thunder but what if i wanted to get married THIS summer instead of next summer. we eventually decided next summer's better anyway because we can save some money but if it wasnt for annoying family, i probably wouldve had my wedding sooner!

it sounds like your cousin is intentionally trying to piss you off- you have every right to be mad- not like my FSIL!!

that knocked up b***h got nerve.... I still do not think she is one of us. SORRY. I think it is hokey. we do not even know antyhing about her. she came to my wedding un gifted but never even spoke to me. she is *****. (pond scum. ) do not worry babe, 2010 is all about you and this AUNT will see to it.

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Posted by catsgirl

that knocked up b***h got nerve.... I still do not think she is one of us. SORRY. I think it is hokey. we do not even know antyhing about her. she came to my wedding un gifted but never even spoke to me. she is *****. (pond scum. ) do not worry babe, 2010 is all about you and this AUNT will see to it.

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hahahahhaha i <3 you!!! you are the best aunt ever!!!!! thank you for everything!

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Posted by futureMrsJSL

I'd be mad too. Whatever you do don't offer details about your wedding to her. All she needs to know is your date and that she'll most likely be invited.

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good idea...i dont need her stealing my ideas

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Posted by cateydee

i feel you- im kind of in a similar situation. my borther got engaged last january and is getting married this november. i got engaged a few weeks ago and he keeps making little remarks about how i'd better not get married before him. i can tell that my FSIL feels the same way. i certainly dont want to steal his thunder but what if i wanted to get married THIS summer instead of next summer. we eventually decided next summer's better anyway because we can save some money but if it wasnt for annoying family, i probably wouldve had my wedding sooner!

it sounds like your cousin is intentionally trying to piss you off- you have every right to be mad- not like my FSIL!!

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I can't believe he says that.
If my FSIL said that to my FH that would cause problems. were is it written that if you get engaged first you have to get married first.
I'm feel lucky not to be dealing with drama.
At least not yet