My FH had his bachelor party this past weekend. They went up state from Friday - Monday (4 day trip) and did all kinds of out door activities.
In June he is having another party. This time with the dad's, uncles and groomsmen. they are going out east on a fishing boat trip and then back to his parent house for a BBQ.
ALSO - the week of the wedding he is having a golf outing with the groomsmen, dads and others. since our RH is on a golf course.
ONE more thing to thank his best men, he is taking them to a yankee game when we get back from out honeymoom.. . . with one other random friend.
So fh emails me today -
'I emailed and texted all the guys who went away last weekend to thank them. I just wanted to let you know that Ted, Dan, and Kevin wanted to take me out to a steak dinner and a strip club. I told them I wasn't interested in going to the strip club.'
I am annoyed! He is not dying, this is not his bucket list. We have 79436756758 wedding things to do - and he can have 50 bachelor parties.
cateydee
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i just want to add that he gets points for turning down an offer to go to the strip club
halfbaked
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Yeah that seems a little excessive. I'd be a little annoyed, but rather than get mad I'd probably just get even.
I really wanted to go to Vegas for my bach. party, but because of budget constraints DH and I both agreed that we'd stay local for our bach. parties or maybe do AC. Well his guys booked Vegas 'without his knowledge' (Yeah, right!) so I said screw it, if you can go to Vegas than so can I. And I did. And it was grand.
Becca2010
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Wow that's definitely a lot of Bachelor type things!!
I'd try not to let them bother me so much and just try to think of it like his friends and family really want him to relax and have a good time.
I think what YOU should do is make sure you have time to hang out with your friends. Even if there are 2486248569 things to do, just carve out some time and have some wine and apps with friends. We'll arrange a Long Island G2G for You!!!
Think of it as FH spending time with his close friends and family and that you should be doing the same.
mariedsgn
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normally I would not care if he was golfing, fishing, steak dinner, but he already had his 4 day weekend, and he is not getting any wedding stuff done.
and I guess the turn 'bachelor party' erks me - here is anthony's bachelor party #1000
cateydee
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Posted by mariedsgn
normally I would not care if he was golfing, fishing, steak dinner, but he already had his 4 day weekend, and he is not getting any wedding stuff done.
and I guess the turn 'bachelor party' erks me - here is anthony's bachelor party #1000
maybe you would feel better if you have a few more outings with your girls?
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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Hahahahaha I loooove that u said 'he's not dying' its true!! He's not! He can still go out to dinner, go fishing and golfing after the ring is on his finger!! Id be bugging! That time could be spent helping u w wedding things or doing something together to get away from the wedding stress!
