Would you be mad if. . . .
FMIL was wearing the same color as your bridesmaids?
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Yes- but do to my MOH dress being ordered in the wrong color she and my mother wound up in almost the same color, wasn't a huge deal but if she is doing it on purpose I would be annoyed
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I wouldnt care so much. JMO :)
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Yes. Has the dress been ordered yet? If she likes the color of the dresses maybe she can get it in a different shade? My mom is wearing a darker shade of the dresses. Maybe your fmil does not know the 'traditionally rule'. My FMIL doesn't know any 'traditionally rules' and I had to let her know and she felt so much better once we spoke about certain things. Maybe that would help? Only a suggestion....
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I would not care
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I dont think it really matters, atleast she isnt wearing white, not that that matters to me either. If anything, she would be keeping up with the color scheme.
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Not at all. Dress color is one thing I am not worrying about at all. If my FMIL and my Mom both want to wear white, I'd be OK with that too...I so am not stressing it. I pick my battles! ![]()
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Posted by Tjay
Yes. Has the dress been ordered yet? If she likes the color of the dresses maybe she can get it in a different shade? My mom is wearing a darker shade of the dresses. Maybe your fmil does not know the 'traditionally rule'. My FMIL doesn't know any 'traditionally rules' and I had to let her know and she felt so much better once we spoke about certain things. Maybe that would help? Only a suggestion....
Traditionally rule?
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Posted by ANONYMOUS BRIDE
FMIL was wearing the same color as your bridesmaids?
not in the least.
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At first, YES, but then I'd remember that she'd be the one people were laughing at and I'd be over it. There's so many other things to worry about. I'm sure my FMIL isn't even buying a new dress! Whatever. She's crazy.
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Personally, I wouldn't care.
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Posted by antskim
I would not care
Ditto. I really wouldn't care. AT least yu know she matches with the color scheme!
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I don't think I would mind
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However.... if it was the same DRESS, then not only would I be mad, I (and FH) would probably be quite embarrassed! ![]()
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if thats your biggest worry.....you are damn lucky!!!!!
its not a biggie....let the fmil wear what she wants.,....its her sons wedding too!
its not a biggie....let the fmil wear what she wants.,....its her sons wedding too!
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I don't think I'd like it. I mean, it wouldn't make me crazy, but I don't think I'd care for that.
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not really
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DEF!!!!!![]()
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my mother went insane while i was picking out BM's dreses b/c it took so long - she kept saying 'I can't get my dress until you get the BM's dresses - I'm afraid they are going to be the same color!' I kept saying 'Who cares?!' and she was aghast.
I think this used to be a big no-no. Personally, I could care less.
I think this used to be a big no-no. Personally, I could care less.
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no not really
