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Would you be offended?

Original post by springbride05

Would you be offended if you were only invited to the reception and not the wedding? We want to keep our wedding ceremony small but I don't want to offend anyone.

bridzilla Posted:

Re: Would you be offended?

If I am invited to someone's wedding that I am not very close to, then I probably would only attend the reception anyway. I know a lot of people who do this.
So I don't think people who you aren't very close with would be offended if they weren't invited to the ceremony.

ETA: Just make sure it's worded clearly.
brideinapril Posted:

Re: Would you be offended?

I voted yes - because I feel the ceremony is the whole purpose of the day. People are going to want to SEE you get married. Not just be invited to the party.

KerrC Posted:

Re: Would you be offended?

I would be a little insulted. You should invite everyone and just let what happens, happen.

diamondgrlie Posted:

Re: Would you be offended?

I said maybe b/c it depends on how close I am to the bride and groom and their family.

Sweetness Posted:

Re: Would you be offended?


Posted by KerrC

I would be a little insulted. You should invite everyone and just let what happens, happen.



Let the people decide if they want to attend the ceremony or not, most people don't but give them that choice. If i was invited to the reception and not the ceremony, i would be thinking they just want my $$$ whycan't i watch them take vows??!!! I would most def be insulted

I wouldn't go to either, ceremony or reception(unless it was family)..

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