Would you be offended?

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Posted by kristi313

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by Mimacat

I think its funny thats so many ppl assume she's heavy and jealous! Isn't that also being presumptuous???

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It is being presumptuous but you cant say that half the time someone is calling someone else too thin, it isnt by a heavy person.

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why is it that thin people think that all heavier people are just totally jealous and it consumes them so much that they are the only one making comments? how many thin people make comments about overweight people, it works both ways

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I dont know if the people who said it to me were jealous but they were heavy. It does work both ways though. Same way you dont see a thin person calling another thin person TOO THIN. You wont see a heavy person calling another heavy person fat.

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Posted by kristi313

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by Mimacat

I think its funny thats so many ppl assume she's heavy and jealous! Isn't that also being presumptuous???

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It is being presumptuous but you cant say that half the time someone is calling someone else too thin, it isnt by a heavy person.

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why is it that thin people think that all heavier people are just totally jealous and it consumes them so much that they are the only one making comments? how many thin people make comments about overweight people, it works both ways

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Kristi, you're just mad b/c you got kicked out of Major League Baseball for steroid use. You and roger clemens are bff's.

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by kristi313

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by Mimacat

I think its funny thats so many ppl assume she's heavy and jealous! Isn't that also being presumptuous???

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It is being presumptuous but you cant say that half the time someone is calling someone else too thin, it isnt by a heavy person.

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why is it that thin people think that all heavier people are just totally jealous and it consumes them so much that they are the only one making comments? how many thin people make comments about overweight people, it works both ways

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I dont know if the people who said it to me were jealous but they were heavy. It does work both ways though. Same way you dont see a thin person calling another thin person TOO THIN. You wont see a heavy person calling another heavy person fat.

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maybe not to their face, and you know you can't disagree.

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by kristi313

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by Mimacat

I think its funny thats so many ppl assume she's heavy and jealous! Isn't that also being presumptuous???

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It is being presumptuous but you cant say that half the time someone is calling someone else too thin, it isnt by a heavy person.

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why is it that thin people think that all heavier people are just totally jealous and it consumes them so much that they are the only one making comments? how many thin people make comments about overweight people, it works both ways

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Kristi, you're just mad b/c you got kicked out of Major League Baseball for steroid use. You and roger clemens are bff's.

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yupppers!

SOmeone posted about this earlier - I am overweight and offended when rude people make comments - more so when I was younger. It is just as rude to say what that woman said to you though. Smile and know you are hapy as you are

I've gotten that a few times in my life too..and I find it soo rude. I hate that I always felt the need to defend myself too, or run off a list of all the food I ate..

I put on a few more pounds, that I would really like to get rid of, and now I HATE whenever I mention that I want to eat healthier, there's always someone in shock that feels a need to tell me I don't need to be on a diet, when I never said anything about 'diet' i just said healthier..i eat like crap..I'll have brownies for breakfast and a hamburger for dinner lolz..that is NOT healthy regardless of size!

That's so irritating! My sister is really thin....we all joke with her because we're jealous haha. But sometimes people accuse her of having an eating disorder and it's like mind your own damn business!!!

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Posted by kristi313

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by kristi313

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by Mimacat

I think its funny thats so many ppl assume she's heavy and jealous! Isn't that also being presumptuous???

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It is being presumptuous but you cant say that half the time someone is calling someone else too thin, it isnt by a heavy person.

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why is it that thin people think that all heavier people are just totally jealous and it consumes them so much that they are the only one making comments? how many thin people make comments about overweight people, it works both ways

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I dont know if the people who said it to me were jealous but they were heavy. It does work both ways though. Same way you dont see a thin person calling another thin person TOO THIN. You wont see a heavy person calling another heavy person fat.

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maybe not to their face, and you know you can't disagree.

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Youre right. Definitely not to their face!

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Posted by Miblove

Woman I work with just walked up to me and told me 'Honey....I know you're thin, but now you're wasting away'
I was like 'huh, this is me - I've always been thin - havent lost weight'
She was like 'oh, I guess I never really looked..' blah blah - you could tell she felt uncomfy
I shook it off, and laughed a little but not too much

I dont understand how ppl would NEVER dare to tell someone they're TOO FAT, but ppl would NOT hesitate to say they're TOO THIN!

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I can totally relate
Like you I've been thin my entire life. No matter what I do, I'm thin. If I stress, I have to make sure and eat extra cause I loose weight when I stress no matter what. I don't stop eating so I guess my metabolism gets faster for some readons

Anyway I'm at the point where I want to turn around and say, 'Um wow you sure are fat'..
no offense to anyone, but it just pisses me off, I feel like this society focuses on weight too much. People need to know that telling someone they're thin is just as bad as saying, wow you're fat

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Posted by Miblove

Woman I work with just walked up to me and told me 'Honey....I know you're thin, but now you're wasting away'
I was like 'huh, this is me - I've always been thin - havent lost weight'
She was like 'oh, I guess I never really looked..' blah blah - you could tell she felt uncomfy
I shook it off, and laughed a little but not too much

I dont understand how ppl would NEVER dare to tell someone they're TOO FAT, but ppl would NOT hesitate to say they're TOO THIN!

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I hate that its ok for people to say that...like you said is it ok to go up to someone and say...wow your fat!
I dont like it either and I tell people it too! Make them feel as uncomfortable

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Posted by Miblove

I dont understand how ppl would NEVER dare to tell someone they're TOO FAT

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Ohh, they do, they do

But yes, what she said to you was totally innapropriate. Just take comfort in knowing she's an ignorant twat and you're a better person than she'll ever be!

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Posted by Songstress



I've never been calledthat, so I''ll take your word for it! Someday....

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I havent been called too thin in a while and I miss it now. When I was younger, I would come home and cry when people made fun of how skinny I was. I would eat and eat and wear like 3 pairs of tights under my jeans. It was sooooo uncomfortable but now when I look back and I remember the people who would pick on me, they were all heavy!!

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I thought I was the only who did that with the tights (lol). I don't mind people saying I'm too thin anymore I guess I'm over the whole weight thing and I try to work out as much as I can.

yes!!!!!!!!! I get this alot lately..and i haven't lost weight either.. I think its extremely rude..and the funny thing is i eat more than most people..im sure..so i feel like they are trying to imply that i have an eating disorder, which totally isn't the case

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Posted by Shell84

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Posted by Songstress



I've never been calledthat, so I''ll take your word for it! Someday....

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I havent been called too thin in a while and I miss it now. When I was younger, I would come home and cry when people made fun of how skinny I was. I would eat and eat and wear like 3 pairs of tights under my jeans. It was sooooo uncomfortable but now when I look back and I remember the people who would pick on me, they were all heavy!!

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I thought I was the only who did that with the tights (lol). I don't mind people saying I'm too thin anymore I guess I'm over the whole weight thing and I try to work out as much as I can.

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OMG!! You too??!! I remember being SOOOOO uncomfortable but I didnt care as long as I looked 'thicker' Now Im trying to get my legs thinner.