Would you be pissed...

htkp Posted: Dec 14, 2011 07:02 PM

Would you be pissed...

if your fiancee bought a car for himself and didn't tell you until after the fact?

PaddysGirl Posted: Dec 14, 2011 07:12 PM

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if we had a shared budget yes. but if you have not combined finances and the car payment will not take away from your wedding/house/life budgets then no, well yes I would but I dont think I should be.

dawnbon26 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 07:18 PM

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I think I have to ask this question, would he be pissed if you bought the car without telling him?

BTW - I would be pissed we're not just boyfriend - girlfriend, we're getting married and we should be talking over big purchases.

JNB818 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 07:50 PM

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Posted by dawnbon26

I think I have to ask this question, would he be pissed if you bought the car without telling him?

BTW - I would be pissed we're not just boyfriend - girlfriend, we're getting married and we should be talking over big purchases.

This!!!
I would definitely like to know about such a big purchase especially now with a wedding going on.

bebita0830 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 08:06 PM

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Posted by dawnbon26

BTW - I would be pissed we're not just boyfriend - girlfriend, we're getting married and we should be talking over big purchases.

ita! buying a car is not like buying a shirt. I wouldn't have a big fight about it but I'd def have a serious talk about communication

2013Bride Posted: Dec 14, 2011 08:09 PM

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Ummm yes. Big purchases like that should absolutely be discussed first. You should both be saving up for your wedding/lives together.

FutureWifey Posted: Dec 14, 2011 08:11 PM

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Pissed? No. Livid? Yes.

My fiance is scared to even tell me he stepped onto a car lot... let alone buy one!

lol last week FH told me he went to Subaru, but didn't get to that point until he said 'Paul and I went to look around, we're not buying anything, we are just looking and leaving... but we are at Subaru.' I asked him about cargo space and I could hear him just cowering over the phone like he did something wrong.

I hope your fiance didn't buy a car and not tell you.... that's a BIG financial no no.

Fianag24 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 08:25 PM

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definetly. big things like that need to be talked over.

Bride2Be78 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 08:46 PM

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I would be pissed. I agree with the ladies on here. Big purchases should be discussed.

Sweetpea1 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 09:37 PM

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Yes large commitments like that should be discussed beforehand

dawnbon26 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 09:41 PM

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Could someone please tell me how you put another person's post into yours. I can't figure it out and it's pissing me off!!!

LBCJRS1125 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 10:12 PM

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Posted by Bride2Be78

I would be pissed. I agree with the ladies on here. Big purchases should be discussed.

This to the max!

gmcamp Posted: Dec 14, 2011 10:17 PM

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Posted by LBCJRS1125

Posted by Bride2Be78

I would be pissed. I agree with the ladies on here. Big purchases should be discussed.

This to the max!

This.

gmcamp Posted: Dec 14, 2011 10:18 PM

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Posted by dawnbon26

Could someone please tell me how you put another person's post into yours. I can't figure it out and it's pissing me off!!!

You click the button that says 'quote' instead of 'reply'

pixietina Posted: Dec 14, 2011 10:19 PM

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I would be really pissed. When making a commitment to each other than you should share big things like that.

dawnbon26 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 10:59 PM

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Posted by gmcamp

Posted by dawnbon26

Could someone please tell me how you put another person's post into yours. I can't figure it out and it's pissing me off!!!

You click the button that says 'quote' instead of 'reply'

finally - Thank you very much

futuremorasse Posted: Dec 14, 2011 11:45 PM

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I would deff be pissed! My FH actual did buy a new car a few months after we got engaged, but he talked everything over with me before making even going to look.