that is REALLY strange! a used maid of honor - i never heard of such a thing!
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I'll bet MOH's best friend was just a little jealous that you beat her to the punch in asking her to be MOH first. Don't even let it get to you!!! Clearly your wedding will be more of a priority to her, since its her brother's wedding!!!
i could not agree more
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LOL! You ladies are amazing! Just reading your replies has really helped me. I've been so bummed about it and this really, really cheered me up. The whole 'used' thing really is so ridiculous!!
I just feel really bad too for my MOH because now she has to help plan 2 bridal showers, 2 bachelorette parties, go to 2 rehearsal dinners, and buy 2 dresses and help with 2 weddings at the same time...absolute craziness!!
Thank you so much again ladies! I feel a lot better now and you all just seriously rock my world!
it might get stressful for her at times but she will find a way to work it out. I know my MOH was stressed at times bc she also had to help plan 2 showers, 2 bachelorette parties, and also the costs of course. But it all worked out. I think after she did feel a little like aahhhhh its all done, went well and all worked out and now i dont have to plan anything for a while and cant just attend weddings haha.
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don't even worry about it, I am assuming you arn't invited to this girl's wedding? She sounds miserable... if anything I just feel bad for your MOH being in two weddings 2 weekends in a row lol
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It is annoying but let it go just think your wedding comes second save the best for last! You will have more fun!
I feel sorry for the MOH though poor thing is really going to break the bank!
GT143EA
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It sounds like this girl is jealous of the close relationship you two have. Dont worry too much! She sounds like a moron!
LeeAnne
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that is childish of her to say things like that. be the bigger person, congratulate her and plan the most amazing wedding and marriage for you and your FH
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This other girl is being ridiculous and petty and immature. A 'used' MOH? ***? I feel bad for your FSIL... she's going to have her hands full! Most of my BMs had been BMs before. Two were married, and one of those was pregnant!
justustwo48
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Thank you again everyone! Sorry it took me so long to respond, I was in class ( )
She asked FSIL if we were inviting her and her FH to the wedding to make sure they returned the favor but I wouldn't have the time to go anyway since we will be moving my stuff down to Georgia that week. Either way we will both have beautiful weddings but by the time mine comes around, hers will be a thing of the past!
I just pray for my MOH that she stays sane it that these weddings don't break the bank too much (I've been trying to scale down costs for my girls).
Thank you again everyone!!!
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I have to say I would be upset..i know this because a very similar situation happened to me and it really upset me! Obviously, I know i can't change it and to really let it get to me would be silly, but it did frost my cookies!
