My ex and I are on friendly terms. I have ZERO romantic interest in him. One of his good friends is getting married, someone I was always fond of. My ex asked if I wanted to be his +1.
Would you go?
FH probably wouldn't want me to go as HIS date.
Kara and Todd
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No, I, personally, would never go in that situation. To be honest, I don't think I'd go as a friend's date even if he was not my ex, but I realize that everyone is different and everyone has different views on it. You should do what is best for you and your SO.
EJSD2006
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DH would have no part of that! i think i'd even be too scared to ask....
LandsEnd06
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NEVER! I would never do that to my FH.
snydl40
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I wouldn't even if Fh said it was okay. I think it's disrespectful. Sorry-just being honest.
shelby34
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I am good friends with two of my exes and would feel like it was innocent. However, FH would hate it so I wouldn't do that to him. Just think how you would feel if FH went to a wedding with an ex.....or even just another random girl!
JenMike331
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Posted by snydl40
I wouldn't even if Fh said it was okay. I think it's disrespectful. Sorry-just being honest.
i agree and FH would be very upset by it
Unapearla
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nope - bad idea!! even if you broke up 10 years ago, he is still your EX. it would be disrespectful to your fh/dh to be your ex's date.
agree
luvabul
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FH probably wouldn't want me to go as HIS date.
u answered ur own question, i wouldnt go if i were u, wouldnt want to get FH angry, because its totally understandable i wouldnt want him going ANYWHERE with his ex, even though they have 0 zero romantic interest
NY031978
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well if your hubby is ok with it and your friends i guess thats something id think about. But i know if this was me id prob not do it....just bc my Fi i know deep down would be hurt!
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NO way....i wouldn't want FH to go with one of his ex's (even if i know it's just as friends) as i know he wouldn't want me to do the same...i can't imagine how i would feel sitting at home while he went to a wedding with them....and i wouldn't want him to have to feel that if i did
Mandyin2007
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No way, my FH would freak out regardless of if we were not interested in each other.
daniebc16
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No way, my FH would be devestated, not to mention awake all night wondering...what if.... Plus I really wouldn't want to go I think that it would really cause unnecessary tension.
kitty1224
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I would not because I would not want FH to go with his ex, would you?
strawberryshortcake
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No, if you were single it would be one thing. But it's inappropriate, especially if your FH won't like it.
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Posted by shelby34
I am good friends with two of my exes and would feel like it was innocent. However, FH would hate it so I wouldn't do that to him. Just think how you would feel if FH went to a wedding with an ex.....or even just another random girl!
ditto
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if you really want to congratulate this girl, go with your fh to the church, and see her there.....
