I don't care what they do with their hair...I want them to feel good and comfortable that day too...Plus I want their personalities to show, I also don't like everyone being too much alike
Posted by misskitty08
i wouldn't tell them what to do unless they wanted to all wear their hair the same.
BUT when i was a BM in my brother's wedding, i went and got my hair done (i didn't even want to, but my SIL told me the other girls were wearing their hair up and i didn't want to be the only one w my hair down)...but when i showed up i was the only one who had my hair done. the other 2 girls looked like they barely even ran a brush through theirs. i was kind of upset b/c i would much rather have left my hair down, i spent a lot of money to get it done at a really nice salon since it was for a wedding, and i felt like i looked stupid since they did absolutely nothing to their hair.
in a large BP you won't have that problem, b/c there will be so many different styles. but if you are having a smaller BP you might want to just make sure they know what each other is doing in case they do want to coordinate.
Posted by GinaBambina88
As soon as I officially decide how i'm wearing my hair, i'm gonna ask them to wear theirs a certain way...if i'm wearing mines up, I want them to wear theirs down...i'm not gonna get into specifics, they'll have their legroom...the way I see it, i'm only getting married once, this is supposed to be my special day, so i'd want to look special and different from anyone else...I guess i'm officially a bridezilla now!![]()
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I could be the only one, but I am going to ask the girls not to have any tendrils/hanging pieces of hair around the face. I have seen alot of proofs from other weddings and see the hair and not the BM face from the wind blowing, etc...Pretty much everything else they can choose whatever they want..
either all up or all down what ever style you choose is ok. My hairdresser talked me out of the uniform look because he said some hairstyles look better on some then others.
I don't think I will dictate a particular style... I'm not paying for it, so they can style their hair as they choose... each girl has their own style and i want that shining through, esp since they are wearing the same dress!
I think i would prefer if their hair was opposite mine, like if mine is up, theirs would be down. i wouldnt care what the style was though. if they objected to this, it woudlnt be too much of a big deal. ill choose my battles and i dont think this would be one of them.
I wouldn't, but a wedding I was in definitely asked us to all wear our hair a certain way... it didn't bother me.
Posted by Fall Bride 2008
either all up or all down what ever style you choose is ok. My hairdresser talked me out of the uniform look because he said some hairstyles look better on some then others.
my friend who just got married this past saturday had all the BM's do their hair half up half down
Yup, I told them they all have to wear it up. I don't care how, but up cause mine will be down
All of my girls wear their hair different ways, so I would feel weird telling them all to do it one way...they all have their individual styles and personalities, so as long as its done, I dont care.
At first I was going to have them all wear it up but then I realized that some my look better with it up or down or might be more comfortable so I am going to let them decide how they want to wear their hair.
In my experience with bridal parties...i have never been asked to wear my hair a certain way...which is nice...i like to wear my hair down and it will be down for my wedding as well....I will not be telling my BM's how to do their hair...whatever they want! =)
