Would you go on vacation with the girls??

Would you go on a trip to Jamaica, Negril ( HEDO) with your girlfriends, not with your FH?
If so , Why?
If not Why not?

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I'd go with the guys. But I think the better question would be...

'Would your significant other ALLOW you to go on a vacation like this with the girls?'

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hahah too true, DJPill. I might be going to europe with my best friend and a few of her firneds next summer...but I doubt I'll be able to swing the $$. Why not? Everyone needs some time away from FH, and it'll be REALLY weird, it's not the kind of thing you cna really do once you're married, so you may as well do it now

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Would u allow ur FW go on a vacation like this without you ?

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I went there last summer with my best friend and we left the boys at home and for the most part we behaved ourselves just watch out for the 50+ old swingers who will try to get with you. all in all it was a great vacation. we had a great time and did meet a few normal people.

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Did ur FH know what type of place Hedonism was?

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I would love to do this. We're going to Vegas (bleh ) for a joint bachelorette party at the end of April and I'll be married 3 weeks when we go. So yes, if I had the money and the time, I'd definitely go. The only reason other than those two that I wouldn't go is that it would eat up all my vacation days, not leaving any for FH and I to go away. In that case, no, I would not go.

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My FI (now DH) told me to leave my engagement ring HOME when I went to Vegas for my bachelorette!! Ha, turns out he was afraid I would lose it, NOT because he was 'encouraging' me. I don't think he'd like me to go again, especially since I told him not to let me go on my own.....too dangerous!

So, to answer the ?.....I wouldn't like DH to go to Hedonism, so I don't think I would go either. A weekend in Montauk or something a little more tame, yes. But Hedonism...well...

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oh yes and both my FH and his bestfriend made fun of us before we left. they were trying to scare us.
FYI you can stay on the prude side of the beach just remember that.
you will see and hear some interesting stuff. oh and hedo 2 does not have tvs they want you to be in your room if you know what i mean.....
hedo 3 does though.
all in all i would do it again.
it was great!!!!!
I think that was part of what made my fh propose sooner then I thought LOL

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Posted by eogara

I would love to do this. We're going to Vegas (bleh ) for a joint bachelorette party at the end of April and I'll be married 3 weeks when we go. So yes, if I had the money and the time, I'd definitely go. The only reason other than those two that I wouldn't go is that it would eat up all my vacation days, not leaving any for FH and I to go away. In that case, no, I would not go.

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Oh egogara my bachelorette in Vegas was a BLAST!!! Only 3 of us went (is that still considered a party?? oh well, we made it one!). That was my first time in Vegas and we just laughed sooo hard and partied and danced and flirted and and and oh just so much fun!! Hopefully you will enjoy it! As a matter of fact, here is a pic of my Last Temptation...lol....

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My FW has always been a huge preacher that she would NEVER get in the way of me hanging out with my friends... no matter what I wanted to do.

All the guys I know say 'oh wait till you get married and she will start pulling the reings in'. LOL But until she acts otherwise... I would let her do what she wanted if she wanted to go away... just like she said i could do what I want.


I might be doing Vegas with the guys for my bachelor party. My FW told me go and have a great time... I only have three rules I have to follow:
1 - Don't f*** anybody
2 - Don't drink or drive
3 - Don't gamble the co-op away

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Posted by Karacg

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Posted by eogara

I would love to do this. We're going to Vegas (bleh ) for a joint bachelorette party at the end of April and I'll be married 3 weeks when we go. So yes, if I had the money and the time, I'd definitely go. The only reason other than those two that I wouldn't go is that it would eat up all my vacation days, not leaving any for FH and I to go away. In that case, no, I would not go.

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Oh egogara my bachelorette in Vegas was a BLAST!!! Only 3 of us went (is that still considered a party?? oh well, we made it one!). That was my first time in Vegas and we just laughed sooo hard and partied and danced and flirted and and and oh just so much fun!! Hopefully you will enjoy it! As a matter of fact, here is a pic of my Last Temptation...lol....

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Thanks!! I've been there before, it's just not my type of place but I'm sure I'll have a blast being away with the girls!

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Heck yeah, I'd go away with my girls in a heartbeat! Not hedonism cause it's not my thing but a vacation with the girls, sure.

Fh goes hunting and off roading all the time with the guys. I could care less - gives me a free weekend.
I wouldn;t like him to go away for a full week or two without me, I think we actually enjoy being on vacation together but if it was a weekend - 5 day thing, I wouldn't care.
We have full trust in each other.

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I wouldn't at this time in my life. During college, I traveled a lot with my friends. Now that I am with FH, we travel together. I think it's great to experience both.

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yeah, my FH has no problem with me traveling once a yr with the girls, but he's not quite feeling HEDONISM.. lol

I guess I have to scratch that one off..

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I don't like to travel with out my husband

(I've tried it, he's the only one that lets me see the weird stuff I want to!)

But for a friend's bachelorette or 30th birthday or something I'd go to something like that. DH probabaly would just be worried if I woudl be safe there.

It wouldn't ever be my idea though.

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yeah. me and my DH dont see a problem with it at all.

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Absolutely, traveled to New Orleans with 10 girlfriends and had the best time ever. DH and I don't require permission to do something, we trust each other.

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I would go. Depending on the group of girls my hunny would either frown or smile and say go.

If it was a group of single girls spring breakin' it...then NO! But if it was a group of girls with a SO or a mix of the two...it would be ok!