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would you guys be pissed?

Original post by spring06bride

I have, who i thought was a very good friend tell me that she cannot come to the wedding b/c it's her 30th bday and she may or may not have plans to celebrate it with people... I was a bit perturbed, but i guess people's true colors come out.

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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I am pissed for you!!!
LBride Posted:

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oppsie, I'm not going to FH's coworkers engagement party cause it's my 25th but he's alittle more far removed than a close friend. I totally understand why you would be pissed
ML110 Posted:

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that stinks!! i mean sure, her 30th birthday is special... but she can't celebrate the next weekend or the night before or something?? thats really not cool of her!
this reminds me of one of my BMs- at my shower, she left early because she had go celebrate her FIs 30th birthday. first off, my shower was early afternoon like from 2-5 or something... she couldn't just wait till afterwards?? or the next night or something? i guess it just hurts me because for her shower about a month before mine, i went early to set up, and stayed late to help clean up.... would an extra 45 minutes at my shower really have killed her??
Maybride519 Posted:

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May or may not.....how about not, since you have a wedding to go to and no solid plans! OMG....that is such a slap in the face. Why do weddings make everyone so evil
BrideChrissy Posted:

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that is really screwed up! I would be really pissed off.

Love4Eva Posted:

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i would be upset - she can def celebrate her 30th bday another night - your wedding only happens once!! Do you think that that might just be an excuse for her not to go?

cammolax23 Posted:

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i think an engagement party and wedding are completely different, besides the fact that its your FH's coworker, not one of your good friends...

I cant believe that she would want to miss your big day for her little insignificant in comparision day.

have you already sent out the invitations, if i were you i wouldnt send her one and when she asks where it hers is, just simply tell her oh well i didnt think you wanted to come because it was your birthday.. sorry too late now, we have reached the max!!!



sorry im just having an irritaing day
Summer101 Posted:

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I would just celebrate my birthday another day so I could go to my friend's wedding. I would be a little annoyed!

eroxgirl Posted:

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I was a BM in a wedding that was the day after my birthday...instead of having a romantic evening with DH that night I was asleep at 10 p.m. on my girlfriend's couch with her annoying dog so that I would be ready for her bright and early the next day... so needless to say I'd be very annoyed if I were you.

Question...is this friend single? I wonder if the thought of going to a wedding on her 30th birthday and being single bugs her...some girls have issues with that.
Soon2BeMrsS Posted:

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O-M-G I would be so P-Oed,

spring06bride Posted:

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Posted by eroxgirl

I was a BM in a wedding that was the day after my birthday...instead of having a romantic evening with DH that night I was asleep at 10 p.m. on my girlfriend's couch with her annoying dog so that I would be ready for her bright and early the next day... so needless to say I'd be very annoyed if I were you.

Question...is this friend single? I wonder if the thought of going to a wedding on her 30th birthday and being single bugs her...some girls have issues with that.


Nope, she's married, been married for about 2 years... think she's just self-absorbed and selfish... it wouldn't even be an issue for me. Besides we have like 3 other guests, including brother of the groom whose bday is also our wedding date...
Mel329 Posted:

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I would definitely be pissed!! That is messed up. Just make sure you don't go to hers when she gets married!

MarcusGirl Posted:

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Pissed off is putting it lightly!

thefirstlady Posted:

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I'd be pissed if that's how she put it when she told me! I could understand if she wanted to make a big deal out of her b-day, and had to have it on the day of, but she could've been a little nicer about telling you!

angel77 Posted:

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Definitely. This is one the biggest moments in your life and she is going to miss it because it is her b-day and she can't celebrate it a day later. That is no friend, that is someone who is self absorbed and you don't need people in your life like that.

mrsgtobe Posted:

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Yes, I would most definitely be pissed. Some friend!

hbradio Posted:

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I would be pissed but I wouldnt force anyone to be there. Its true that weddings make peoples true colors come out.

mka06 Posted:

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yeah, i'd be mad if it was a really good friend... though to be honest, i will be at a RD on the night of my 30th and while, of course I am going b/c they are good friends, i am kinda bummed about it. Would never tell them that though (and, I know it's selfish!)

ntunison Posted:

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i'd be pissed! that's crazy!

ali120206 Posted:

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I spent one of my birthday's on an airplane (I think it was 28) coming back from a friend's wedding OOT. A birthday happens every year, a wedding only happens once!!! I'd be upset!

I didn't have anything going on for my 30th b-day but I really didnt' celebrate it until weeks later because everyone else was busy.

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