would you 'insist' ...

ok so would you insist that your husband not attend a wedding with out you ... Ok i am having this 'argument' with one of my friends ... there really is a lot more to it but the poll would just not work ... so in general would you allow your husband to go to a wedding with out you?

ETA: ok 'allow' seems not to have been a good word ... so i switched it to say insist instead!!