Would/Did you....

If she has been loving and supporting then get her a small token...like the other girls said a frame. If she has really not been involved with you or the wedding process whether it be financially or advice or going to appointments with you then give her what she deserves...NOTHING.

Give your parents their gift when you guys are alone and you can if you wish explain to them then why they didnt get their gift at the RD.

Good luck

Personally, I would recommend you not give your parents a gift along with most everyone else, and leave your MIL out. She is still his mother and it will cause hurt feelings and you don't want to start a marriage on that footing. Give your parents their gift seperately. Give your inlaws pics, and that is a nice gesture. I know hurt feelings can be carried forward for years, and you don't want that...especially since they are is folks....