wouldnt you be pi$$ed

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Posted by don424

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Posted by nov04LIbride

An invite is always nice. I wouldn't be pissed cause I am home sick. Actually, I would be pissed because then he wouldn't be home taking care of me. Anyway, I am always pissed if I don't get an invite when he goes out.

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so if he goes out with his friends (just guys) you get pissed?

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Sometimes. That happens often enough that I do get upset, just at the amount of weekend nights with the guys (all of his close friends are still single). If it was an occasional thing, which this St Pat's thing appears to be, I wouldn't care. I'm sick and not making much sense.

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by danigirl0

if your SO was going out with people from work for st patricks day and you werent invited?

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Do you work anywhere by him? Usually when people go out for work... they want to go out with co-workers.

Maybe nobody invited SO's out. If thats the case... you shouldn't be pissed.

Be pissed if everyone is bringing their wife/FI. But don't be pissed otherwise.

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I agree. If SO's were invited, and Fh didnt ask me, it would bother me.

It sounds like you want him to spend more time with you in general. I would tell him that, and ask for your own time with him, apart from the coworkers. Besides, you can't do any fun stuff with coworkers around anyway.

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by danigirl0

and DJ, settle down. i dont know if its just the way i read it, but your words come off like an attack.

i just came here to vent a bit, not justify my feelins to a man who has probably dealt with the woman you are accusing me of being!

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LOL... if you want to just 'vent'... here's a hint... DON'T ask for an opinion!

My words come off as somebody that answered your question. Maybe you think its an 'attack' cause I refuse to agree with you.

God... i hate it when people come onto the board... post a question... and cannot take an honest response and give the old 'oh i just wanted to vent' response.

So f'in typical of this site.

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Dani seriously ignore him. He gets off on stir up crap and not allowing anyone else to say their piece with out his idiotic statements.

You are entitled to feel how ever you want!!!

I understand how you feel. You would rather for him to spend time with you since you don't since each other much.
Try to do something that's going to make you feel better and if it bothers you so much, talk to your husband.

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Posted by swags1016

He gets off on stir up crap and not allowing anyone else to say their piece with out his idiotic statements.

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Idiodic comments? My god if I didn't know better... i'd almost take that as an 'attack'.

A weak one... but an attack. Hahah.

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Posted by nov04LIbride

An invite is always nice. I wouldn't be pissed cause I am home sick. Actually, I would be pissed because then he wouldn't be home taking care of me. Anyway, I am always pissed if I don't get an invite when he goes out.

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Aw Beth, you're sick too? I have the nastiest cold that I just can't get rid of! Feel better! (sorry to hijack here)

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by danigirl0

and DJ, settle down. i dont know if its just the way i read it, but your words come off like an attack.

i just came here to vent a bit, not justify my feelins to a man who has probably dealt with the woman you are accusing me of being!

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LOL... if you want to just 'vent'... here's a hint... DON'T ask for an opinion!

My words come off as somebody that answered your question. Maybe you think its an 'attack' cause I refuse to agree with you.




God... i hate it when people come onto the board... post a question... and cannot take an honest response and give the old 'oh i just wanted to vent' response.

So f'in typical of this site.

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with no offense to the good guys...mabe this is why this site is meant for women. we understand each other better. believe it or not dear, people do post questions and look for people to agree with them sometimes. its called venting/support. and if youre going to disagree, theres no reason to put it in an obnoxious, nasty way. it really seems that you are virtually fighting with some exes here.

and i know, its a public forum, blah blah blah...take it for whats it worth. i hope this is not how you are with FH when you two disagree.

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Posted by Butterflybride

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Posted by nov04LIbride

An invite is always nice. I wouldn't be pissed cause I am home sick. Actually, I would be pissed because then he wouldn't be home taking care of me. Anyway, I am always pissed if I don't get an invite when he goes out.

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Aw Beth, you're sick too? I have the nastiest cold that I just can't get rid of! Feel better! (sorry to hijack here)

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Yeah, home sick today and really want to get better before I fly to Vegas Sunday so my head doesn't feel like it will explode... Hope you feel better too! I'm making G take me to get a Slurpee when he gets home to help my throat. ETA: Hope the new job's going well!

No! because my Dh does go out with his boss who takes him out to dinner sometimes He even goes out with co-workers for lunch and they are girls which dont bother me because i know them and they are friends and they talk about work and i know he comes home to me. dont worry about your dh he loves you very much maybe its bussiness with work and he had to go talk to him tonight and explain to him how you feel. gl and cheerup.

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Posted by swags1016

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by danigirl0

and DJ, settle down. i dont know if its just the way i read it, but your words come off like an attack.

i just came here to vent a bit, not justify my feelins to a man who has probably dealt with the woman you are accusing me of being!

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LOL... if you want to just 'vent'... here's a hint... DON'T ask for an opinion!

My words come off as somebody that answered your question. Maybe you think its an 'attack' cause I refuse to agree with you.

God... i hate it when people come onto the board... post a question... and cannot take an honest response and give the old 'oh i just wanted to vent' response.

So f'in typical of this site.

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Dani seriously ignore him. He gets off on stir up crap and not allowing anyone else to say their piece with out his idiotic statements.

You are entitled to feel how ever you want!!!

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thanks...i see that

Yeah but you see... my responses in this thread are not 'obnoxious'. They are just true to the point.

Some people unfortunately just can't handle that. But thats ok. But if someone clearly says they are 'venting' in the thread title or in the OP... or they DON'T ask for advice.. i stay clear.... always

Anyways... i'll leave you to your venting now with the girls. I am heading over to the bar to DJ and get a little shytty. Maybe i'll bump into your hubby there.

Cheers.

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Posted by nov04LIbride
Yeah, home sick today and really want to get better before I fly to Vegas Sunday so my head doesn't feel like it will explode... Hope you feel better too! I'm making G take me to get a Slurpee when he gets home to help my throat. ETA: Hope the new job's going well!

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Ooh...a slurpee...now THAT'S an idea! Good thing 7-11's are 24-7. I'll go with Joey at midnight tonight . I didn't think your Vegas trip was this soon for some reason! I hope you feel better for it BTW, the new job's great! I couldn't have asked for a better job, seriously.

(sorry to hijack dani )

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Posted by BriBri529

right now, no because we live an hour away from each other . . . if we lived closer or were married I think I might be.

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ETA the more I think about it the less I feel I would care because even when we are married our jobs are not near each other . . . It would be nice to receive an invite if it were at a time we would normally be together, but I don't think I would be mad . . .

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Posted by DjPiLL

Yeah but you see... my responses in this thread are not 'obnoxious'. They are just true to the point.

Some people unfortunately just can't handle that. But thats ok. But if someone clearly says they are 'venting' in the thread title or in the OP... or they DON'T ask for advice.. i stay clear.... always

Anyways... i'll leave you to your venting now with the girls. I am heading over to the bar to DJ and get a little shytty. Maybe i'll bump into your hubby there.

Cheers.

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woo hoo! ill drink to that! bye bye!

I am answering this as if we were still dating.....If it is a night that I would normally see him, and he has made other plans without talking to me, yes I would be hurt. If it is during the week, when I don't usually see him, then no, it wouldn't bother me at all.

Now that I am married, if he wanted to go out without me to do stuff with coworkers? I would say 'Have fun!' I have no interest in hanging out with my own co-workers, I definitely don't want to hang out with his.