wouldnt you be pi$$ed

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Posted by danigirl0

and i NEVER get pissed when he goes out with his guys

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Then why start this thread? Sounds like a major contradiction to me.

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Posted by danigirl0

if your SO was going out with people from work for st patricks day and you werent invited?

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Annoyed if I wanted to go too!

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by danigirl0

and i NEVER get pissed when he goes out with his guys

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Then why start this thread? Sounds like a major contradiction to me.

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the king returneth!!!!

well, i appreciate your honesty, but you dont get it. like i said, there is never an issue about him going out, we do that often.

and to be honest, i dont want to go out, st patty day means nothing to me. but time with DH does. i would love to have him here, or at leats have him invite me. then id know he wannted to see me.

question, was this a work gathering?

i see that it was

you have nothing to be mad at -- he had to go

socializing with colleagues is just as important, if not more important than being good at the job

ok, i dont know what youre trying to start here don.

you dot know me and DH. its not a contradiction, youre not reading what im saying. im not looking for a fight about this.

ETA: sorr, i was resping to dj not don

Not for nothing... if its a work gathering... unless you WORK there with him... its not appropriate for you to go.

If I was going out with a bunch of co-workers... and one of my boys ended up bringing his wife because she bitched and moaned about being home... i'd call him a total dipshyt. LOL

no no, i'm not trying to start a fight

i didn't say anything about a contradiction

i am saying that maybe he felt that he 'had' to go because it was a work thing

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Posted by DjPiLL

Not for nothing... if its a work gathering... unless you WORK there with him... its not appropriate for you to go.

If I was going out with a bunch of co-workers... and one of my boys ended up bringing his wife because she bitched and moaned about being home... i'd call him a total dipshyt. LOL

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he's on a roll folks

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Posted by don424

no no, i'm not trying to start a fight

i didn't say anything about a contradiction

i am saying that maybe he felt that he 'had' to go because it was a work thing

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SORRY! i meant that for dj

see, as i said....im not like that and i konw you all dont know me and DH. im never that girl...but tonight, i would like to see him. theres more to it, so maybe thats why its hard to bring this to the table. you are just seeing it as a girl biotching....thats not the girl i am.

LOL what is there NOT to read?

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Posted by danigirl0

if your SO was going out with people from work for st patricks day and you werent invited?

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I'll answer this very SIMPLY. You SHOULDN'T be pissed... and frankly I think you are out of line to even EXPECT to be invited to a work function.

There's my opinion.

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Posted by danigirl0

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Posted by don424

no no, i'm not trying to start a fight

i didn't say anything about a contradiction

i am saying that maybe he felt that he 'had' to go because it was a work thing

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SORRY! i meant that for dj

see, as i said....im not like that and i konw you all dont know me and DH. im never that girl...but tonight, i would like to see him. theres more to it, so maybe thats why its hard to bring this to the table. you are just seeing it as a girl biotching....thats not the girl i am.

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it's all good -- i just know that when it comes to work things, depending on the job you're kinda expected to go -- but yes, there's stuff we don't know here

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Posted by don424

it's all good -- i just know that when it comes to work things, depending on the job you're kinda expected to go -- but yes, there's stuff we don't know here

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Don:

Your not expected to go to EVERY function though. In fact you can get away to only going to a few.

But bringing SOs out with co-workers is just not the norm. At least not any norm that I have ever heard of or experienced.

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Posted by danigirl0

his actions are saying, yeah drinking is worth it, you, not so much! you know what i mean?

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i understand completely how you feel!
(even though im sure in your rationally thinking head you know your DH thinks you're worth it!!)

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by don424

it's all good -- i just know that when it comes to work things, depending on the job you're kinda expected to go -- but yes, there's stuff we don't know here

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Don:

Your not expected to go to EVERY function though. In fact you can get away to only going to a few.

But bringing SOs out with co-workers is just not the norm. At least not any norm that I have ever heard of or experienced.

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true dat, we uusally go out just the guys

thanks don.


and DJ, settle down. i dont know if its just the way i read it, but your words come off like an attack.

i just came here to vent a bit, not justify my feelins to a man who has probably dealt with the woman you are accusing me of being!

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Posted by don424

true dat, we uusally go out just the guys

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Don:


Answer this to me. Have you EVER gone out with drinks with the guys from work after work... and one of them had their wife shipped into the city to hang out with all the people from the job?

I personally have never seen this.

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Posted by DjPiLL

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Posted by don424

true dat, we uusally go out just the guys

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Don:


Answer this to me. Have you EVER gone out with drinks with the guys from work after work... and one of them had their wife shipped into the city to hang out with all the people from the job?

I personally have never seen this.

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actually yes, but only when it was understood that all the wives and gf's were invited

if they weren't then no

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Posted by danigirl0

and DJ, settle down. i dont know if its just the way i read it, but your words come off like an attack.

i just came here to vent a bit, not justify my feelins to a man who has probably dealt with the woman you are accusing me of being!

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LOL... if you want to just 'vent'... here's a hint... DON'T ask for an opinion!

My words come off as somebody that answered your question. Maybe you think its an 'attack' cause I refuse to agree with you.

God... i hate it when people come onto the board... post a question... and cannot take an honest response and give the old 'oh i just wanted to vent' response.

So f'in typical of this site.

thanks miro, youre right. i know he thinks im worth it.