WOW...

my dad just called FH and told him he never wanted to see us again.

I'm stunned. I dont even know how to feel.

I'm leaving the office and the internet for the day. I just don't know why my parents can never be happy for me.

honestly... if i was dealing with all the stuff you are I would just elope and get on with my life... its obvious that everyone feels the need to make your wedding miserable for you!

ETA: this is what i would do... not telling you that you should do it... just to make that clear

I'm so sorry you have to deal with so much stress from your family.

its unnecessary sh*t you shouldnt be going through ..and that would make me so pissed off i would of cancelled the wedding and let them be the joke of the family.

WT F DAD??!?!?!?! That's a terrible thing to say! I know he's your Dad and you love him, but that was so cowardly! He couldn't call and talk to YOU?! I am disgusted and sad.

I am so sorry you are going through this

OMG~this is insanity!! I'm so sorry

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Posted by Becca2010

WT F DAD??!?!?!?! That's a terrible thing to say! I know he's your Dad and you love him, but that was so cowardly! He couldn't call and talk to YOU?! I am disgusted and sad.

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seriously. he called FH? why?

honestly i bet this blows over eventually but for now, just concentrate on you and FH,. you do not need thazt bullsh*t in your life.

I'm so sorry!! I can't believe he would call FH and not you. I'm so sorry!

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Posted by JBC12510

I'm so sorry!! I can't believe he would call FH and not you. I'm so sorry!

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i can totally see why he called her FH...because he doesnt have the balls to say it to his own daughter!

There are no words.

I'm so sorry, your dad's acting like a 2 year old.

I've been through a lot with my dad and things were said that I know we both don't mean and we've now both apologized for. Unfortunately, we also didn't talk for 4 years. It was very painful.

Do you think maybe if you give it a few days you can set up an in person talk and try to discuss things calmly? I know it sucks, but you probably have to be the bigger person. I'm not saying to let him get away with things without calling him out on the big stuff, but to calmly let him know why it hurt you and that you would like to have a good relationship with them on fair terms.

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Posted by jilliibabii

There are no words.

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omg.... im so sorry . w t h...

im so sorry.....

apparently, FH called my dad last night. I was just made aware of this 5 minutes ago....so I'm a little annoyed with FH. Although, I'm not a jerk, I let FH explain to me why he felt compelled to do so, and still felt he was an idiot. I understand he's had it with me upset, and wanted to speak in my defense, but he could have just back off, at least on the part where he said 'I wasn't raised right'.....FH told me he didn't mean to let it roll of his tongue as if I was a crazy child, and my dad was babbling so much FH lost his cool. BUT STILL.

I just spent 45 minutes on the phone with my dad, and now understand why FH had to say what he said. He is severely convinced FH and I are heartless. Yes, I agree, FH was a tad bit over the boundary in his claims that he knows how children should be raise. No, I disagree that your feelings are superior than mine.

I hate that word, superior.

I am closing this chapter. I have spent way to much time lingering on this and maybe I have been a bit childish to post all this mess. I guess I just wanna hear I'm not crazy from being that don't know me through a whole in a wall. I am GREATLY sorry I posted my whole mess on here.

I'm not even going to sulk right now. I am convinced that they will never see my side of things, or FH's, or everyone else's. After this wedding, I'm done.

Now I'm really going home. I have a wedding to go to tomorrow and I'm going to get loaded (with some class though, since my office will be there, don't need the office thinking I'm an alcoholic...).

It's ok that you vented! We all do it! Lord knows I've posted my share of 'FMIL' threads!

You seem like you're more clear headed now and I'm happy for that, BUT family is so important. I hope that in time, you and your family can patch things up. For now, maybe this is the best thing...

Hang in there. I'm sure venting to us helped a little bit. We're always here!