X BOYFRIENDS

Mizzdimple Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:48 PM

X BOYFRIENDS

Is anyone still GOOD FRIENDS with an X that will be attending a wedding?

I have one or two. Do you think thats wrong?

jjk1007 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:50 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

I dont think thats wrong. Its nice that your FH is cool with that!

Super2star Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:50 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

not at all....doesnt mean you cant be friends with them still...is your FH jealous of it?

Mizzdimple Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:51 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

I know he understands, just thinking of what everyone else thinks..Dont think I should care.

Espo22 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:51 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

yeah no way is my ex coming to my wedding lol.

I would never invite him and he would never come either

TGs Lady 22908 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:52 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

I think we'll be inviting my FH's ex's who was once a good friend of mine.

Personally, I think it's fine to invite ex's as long as they are not of the crazy persuasion. Believe it or not some people can actually act like adults haha

Espo22 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:52 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

hey if you are fine with it and FH is fine with it then nothing to worry about...Don't even worry about others would think.

Mizzdimple Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:52 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Posted by Espo22

yeah no way is my ex coming to my wedding lol.

I would never invite him and he would never come either

Are you still friends tho.
I wasnt going to invite them, but he kinda expects it., He said 'cant wait to go'

DnellD809 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:53 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

I think that it's fine if both you and FH gree on it and feel comfortable with it. I have an ex that I'm still friends with that I would invite BUT FH would KILL him! ha SOO he will not be coming!

Super2star Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:54 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Posted by Mizzdimple

Posted by Espo22

yeah no way is my ex coming to my wedding lol.

I would never invite him and he would never come either

Are you still friends tho.
I wasnt going to invite them, but he kinda expects it., He said 'cant wait to go'

HAHA...thats great...I have had friends that said that...who arent invited to mine...I can't imagine an ex saying it...

Espo22 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:54 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Posted by TGs Lady 22908

I think we'll be inviting my FH's ex's who was once a good friend of mine.

Personally, I think it's fine to invite ex's as long as they are not of the crazy persuasion. Believe it or not some people can actually act like adults haha

yeah i dont think theres anything wrong with it, but definitely like you said its based on an individual basis and yeah we dont have the uhmmm to put it nicely adult acting ex's.

I mean no i cant say completely, SURPRISINGLY which shocked alot of us, my ex saw FH and I at a party and he came over and congratulated us

branNjay Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:55 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Posted by Mizzdimple

Is anyone still GOOD FRIENDS with an X that will be attending a wedding?

I have one or two. Do you think thats wrong?

I have an ex i was thinking about inviting but Im not sure I want to now. He was my first so of course there is a part of me that still him. I mean i would NEVER get back together with him I LOVE FH. He was just my first thats all..................anyone else feel that way about there 1st? I hope im not the only one........

Anyways FH and XB talk when we see him out and they are cool with each other. I just dont know if it would be awkward for him to be there......I guess if I feel that way I just answered my own question.

Im not going to ivite him.

Mizzdimple Posted: Mar 19, 2007 01:59 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Posted by branNjay

Posted by Mizzdimple

Is anyone still GOOD FRIENDS with an X that will be attending a wedding?

I have one or two. Do you think thats wrong?

I have an ex i was thinking about inviting but Im not sure I want to now. He was my first so of course there is a part of me that still him. I mean i would NEVER get back together with him I LOVE FH. He was just my first thats all..................anyone else feel that way about there 1st? I hope im not the only one........

Anyways FH and XB talk when we see him out and they are cool with each other. I just dont know if it would be awkward for him to be there......I guess if I feel that way I just answered my own question.

Im not going to ivite him.

Thers another friend of mine- FH doesnt know that we 'hooked up' , he also wants to come...errrrrrrrrrrrrr We are great friends!@

nmagel Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:01 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

I don't think it's wrong.

failurebydsign Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:01 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

an ex of mine was my best friend first..we then dated for about 4 months..and this was 5 years ago..and hes coming to the wedding..in fact he is a GM..FH and him are really close now..he is still my BFF

Mizzdimple Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:06 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Its funny you think you have all of these problemss......and everyone else is going through the same thing.

truelove5803 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:09 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Yeah,I have one EX that is still a really good friend. FH and him get a long very well. We went to his wedding, and FH actually asked me if I wanted him to be one of the groomsman. I only said it wasn't a good idea because he lives out of state now, and everyone else is instate. As long as it is a 'good' situation, I don't see anything wrong with it.

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:11 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

to me I see it as we broke up for a reason so my answer would be no

michellecarin Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:17 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

Worse than an x boyfriend I have my x boyfriend's family. I dont' knokw what to do with them??? its bad

Megs4 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 02:21 PM

Re: X BOYFRIENDS

I will be inviting two ex boyfriends to my wedding! My FH and I are both friends with them. I think there is a chance one may not come -- it might be weird for him. But the other definitely will be there -- he owns the DJ company we are using for the reception!!