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KroertGS Posted: Feb 19, 2013 09:55 AM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 09:55 AM

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Thanks, everyone.

sandr325 Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:22 AM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:22 AM

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Sorry. I don't have this issue but I would stop communicating with her unless she initiates. You have about 3 months until your wedding and you don't need this teenage drama.

KroertGS Posted: Feb 19, 2013 10:54 AM+

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Karin Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:04 AM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:04 AM

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How did FH respond to her comments about not being involved?

lauren1802 Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:08 AM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:08 AM

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maybe shes just not good at email/ text?

KroertGS Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:29 AM+

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DB2013 Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:49 AM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 11:49 AM

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I feel like I have the same issue!!! ughhhh so frustrating!!!

KroertGS Posted: Feb 19, 2013 12:06 PM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 12:06 PM

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Posted by DB2013

I feel like I have the same issue!!! ughhhh so frustrating!!!

Really??? How do you handle it?

Karin Posted: Feb 19, 2013 02:22 PM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 02:22 PM

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Posted by KroertGS

FH told her that she knows everything we've done, and she does! I told him I didn't want her to be upset, but I don't know what more she wants. He thinks she's difficult. She went from being overbearing, wanting to be in the center of it all, to not caring or showing any interest when I tried to make more of an effort. She ignores me.

She e-mails and texts all the time. I know she's seen it by now. She e-mails me pictures of her new granddaughter all the time, and she gets the pictures from FSIL's text messages. She knows what she's doing.

I know its irritating, I dont blame you a bit, but the main thing is that FH is supportive of you and is backing you up. In the long run, that is all that will matter.

DB2013 Posted: Feb 19, 2013 02:30 PM+

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Posted: Feb 19, 2013 02:30 PM