XOXO

jantany26 Posted: Dec 23, 2004 05:17 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

do what you feel its best in your heart no matter how hard the decision must be. Either way you seem like a strong woman and you should be happy, you deserve that.

marymoon Posted: Dec 23, 2004 05:21 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

you're the only one who cna amke this decision, but since it seems s painful, I would throw most of it out, maybe rip it up to help you feel better, burnit,w ahtever..but hang on to one or two things that really hold fond memories for you. you're never ever going to forget him, that's true, and some day the pain WILL be gone or mostly gone and you might want to tell your kids or grandkids about him, or whatever. After many many years, often the bad memories go away (not that you'll ever forget what he did to you), but it's nice to hang on to one or two good memories.

luvsbob4603 Posted: Dec 23, 2004 05:30 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

Toss them in the garbage! you will find someone much better than your ex FH. and you will have better memories with whom ever you meet. i threw away all of my stuff from my ex thats how i let go of him and I moved on. we are here for you because we care.

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Dec 23, 2004 06:49 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

At first I was going to vote for burn it and send it to him, but I remember when I once did something similar with and ex when I pawned a piece of jewelry and mailed him the receipt. Lets just say it did not go over very well and got very ugly.
Anyway I vote for THROW IT OUT.

Sweetie2004 Posted: Dec 23, 2004 07:23 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

TOSS IT OUT!!!

Even if things improve, it's time to let go of the past, good and bad, and start new....

Butterflybride Posted: Dec 23, 2004 07:42 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

I'm a very sentimental person and have kept at least a couple mementos from previous relationships, because it's fun to look back and chuckle about things, but that's just the type of person I am. If you don't want to be reminded of him any more, get rid of those things, or if you don't want to see them for the moment, but know you'll want to look back at them later on, either put them in storage, or ask a friend or loved one if you can keep them at their house for now.

mishandgerard Posted: Dec 23, 2004 09:22 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

I burned the old memories!

suven Posted: Dec 23, 2004 09:23 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

skim through it and start narrowing it down. Eventually, you'll probably toss all of it. But, I always found it easier after a break up to go through stuff and norrow it down instead of tossing it all at once.

OSCARtheGROOM Posted: Dec 23, 2004 09:31 PM

Re: Seriously: Help me decide: Toss or hold on too?

I would burn that stuff, and mail the ashes to him. You have suffered enough. Its time to go on with your life. I hope you had a wonderful birthday!

To the male snitch on the board.... Get a life, and stop acting like an old maid reporting everything back to Jen's ex! Loser!