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Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

it's wrong - and people I know who were invited to an e-party and not the wedding were put off.

It is, however, a very nice gesture on the part of your FMIL. Get her an etiquette book and let her read it for herself, that way you're not the bad one!

Good luck.

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

I think that its 100% wrong to invite people to an e-party that arent invited to the wedding and I also think its a bit much to ask of people having 2 parties that close together

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

I definitely think it is rude. If you invite people to the engagement party and not the wedding, they tend to think you did it just for the presents/$$$$.

I would definitely be hurt if that happened to me

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

I agree that it is rude.

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

I think it's very rude. It's also very tacky!!!

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

I don't think it's right, the eparty should be for people who are getting invited to the wedding...

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

I agree with the rest.. it is rude to invite people to the e- party that arent invited to your wedding.. Good luck with this one! But dont be embarrassed.. im sure they know its your FMIL.. not u!

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

totally rude!

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

If I were invited to an e-party and not the wedding I'd be very pissed off!!! Esp if your FMIL is expecting them to bring gifts! Sorry about this one, good luck trying to convince her! The etiquette book is a great idea!!

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

RUDE, RUDE, RUDE!!!!!!!I think that is ridiculous, I can't believe she doesn't see anything wrong with that. I'm sure the e-party that she is willing to pay for only consists of people that would be on her guest list and no one from your side. WOW, talk about nervy.

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

Definitely RUDE! I agree with the etiquette book idea.

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

DO anything in your power to NOT let her do this... It is rude and I would be so hurt and pissed if it happened to me... basically asking for a gift from people who arent 'good enough or close enough' to be invited to wedding...jmo

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

NO WAY!! SO RUDE!! If I were a guest I would think that it is a tacky way of getting more gifts. I would be mortified!

Re: Do you think this is rude? (sort of a FMIL issue)

can you tell your fmil that although you appreciate the gesture, you'd rather not have an e-party?? i mean, an e-party, then a shower, then the wedding - all in just a matter of months is really asking a lot of people. not that you are to blame, i know you don't want the e-party. and yes, it is rude to invite people to the e-party but not the wedding.